big mistake please help

[brie513]

Hello ladies. I made a big mistake. I took two at home pregnancy tests and both came up positive. I didn't tell the dad. I am currently at work and the dad found the pregnancy tests in one of my bags at our house. He is really upset and refuses to talk to me. I don't know what to do. I had told him that I would tell him if I bought one and now that I didn't he thinks thar I am lying to him and he thinks that I might be lying to him about other things which isn't true. What should I do? I am at work and currently panicking. I can't stop crying. Please help.

[brie513]

We weren't planning or trying to have a baby. It was an accident. But he is right neither of us is ready for kid. So yes I am sure about the adoption. Its my only option.

[joolschic]

I'm shocked I don't know what to say. I thought ye were planning for a baby. is that what you want....adoption??

[Linny5511]

Wow, he has blown this way out of proportion. You do not deserve that at all. Also if you feel right about the adoption that is good. But if you want to raise the baby you can do it without him and shouldn't let him persuade you with what he wants. I'm sorry he's acting like a fool towards you. He sounds like an idiot. I am sorry. Don't let him control you. Hang in there you'll do great.

[brie513]

And to top it all off we were supposed to rent and apartment together but because he thinks I lied to him he called it off. He says that he can't rent a place with a liar.

[Linny5511]

I hope it went well and things are fine now. Let us know! :)

[brie513]

Well he wasn't happy. I told him that I wanted to tell him when I got home. I took everyone's advice and gave him space. I told him that I wad nervous and scared. And he didn't care. Its the next day and he still doesn't care. He said that he can't raise a kid and he wants to give the baby up for adoption. I cried most of the night but finally realized that he was right. We are giving the baby up for adoption.