vent!):<

[dejabean]

So last night, I got sick, and it was coming from both ends, sorry tmi.!! I went to wash it out and the stupid tub got clogged. Grrr. I plunged for two hours, and I live my boyfriend, and I tried to get him to help. He plunged for two mintues and gave up. I got pissed and went off on him. Well today l, his mom said have him use draining, and then get it unclogged that way. He only poured it down the drain, and ran water thirty minutes later, mind you I'm 26w and I know I shouldn't be doing that crap. He wouldn't even help me clean it out. Cause he thinks its gross. What makes him think I want to do it. I'm running on less than three hours sleep. And he's not helping whatsoever. He's playing his stupid xbox, and I'm plunging away, not getting anywhhere with the stupid clog. I want to beat the heck out of him.!!): he's saying I'm being bipolar. But yet he expects me to do this ****. I can't do it.?!?!?!?!?!

[dejabean]

I never had really bad anger issues until I got pregnant, and I live with my boyfriend, because my mom threw me out. I don't get physical. I hate fighting. I just get so frustrated.

[JessicaRuiz72812]

You have to stop getting so angry like that. Trust me, before I got pregnant I attacked my sister because she was wearing my shoes. Then when I found out I was pregnant, I learned to let people know verbally how I feel instead of physically letting them know. And it really helps to let out all of your frustrations by talking. I've never had problems with my boyfriend, he always did what I asked because I would do what he asked. And my mom cleans up my puke (: lol. Good luck!

[dejabean]

I know, I have anger issues, and I have counseling for them, my problem is is that I hold it all in then explode. It's not the cleaning part that pissed me off. Its my puke, I can clean it up, but if I've been up all night and day, with like two hours of sleep, I really don't wanna plunge. Were both stubborn.

[ashdensmommy]

Sounds like my man... he loves his ps3 and it drives me insane. i just walk away and later when he asks for food, drinks, sex or anything i look ay him like "get it yourself" and ive told him that until he starts helping, he wont get the attention he wants because i will get those things for him but only if he is being respectful.. like yesterday and today he had the flu, well i have the flu for 3 days and alot worse then he has. he threw a fit because i had gotten sick and just asked him for a towel but because he was playing his stupid game he couldnt get it because he was busy... so today he said i dont feel good make me soup and i told him exactly how i feel. He appologized and ended up making his own food!

[smesparza]

Haha sorry but that is slightly funny. I'm 26 weeks as well and I know how you feel. But getting that angry isn't good for you or your baby. The best thing I've found that helps me when I get frustrated with my boyfriend is smack him. That sounds bad but it's better than keeping all those bad emotions inside. Plus it's not like I'm beating him with a bat or something. He might think you getting sick is gross and your problem but its not. And when he gets that sick remind him of this incident and have him deal with his mess.