boyfriend looking at strange things....

[SoConfusedRightNow]

So I come home and my boyfriend had fallen asleep so I grabbed his phone to set alarms for him to get up for work in the morning and when I unlocked the phone it was open on an adult site and it was on a homosexual video.. I looked at the history and he'd looked at a number of videos and different sites..

do I leave it or talk to him about it? Should I be worried?

[aurora92]

Are you sure it wasn't a pop-up or were the other sites similar? While I do think that people have a larger sexuality scope than most commonly discuss (see Teresa's comment and the Kinsey scale), it's also a possibility that it wasn't actually watched, but just caught in the mix of things. I am personally anti-porn in general, but I don't want to get into that as I know everyone has their own opinions :-)

[lelaj]

Umm that is not normal.. If he is looking at it, he must be interested, and u should address it now. There are soo many men that lead double lives and then the wife ends up with AIDS or something because they werent honest or afaird to come out with their sexual preference. I know my fiance watches porn, I do too, nothing wrong with that, but we watch stuff that turns us on... U dont just watch porn just to watch it. I would rather catch my man watching other women than a man... There is no tricks he can possibly learn from watching two men to try on me. So if he is watching men then he must interested and just may be gay....

[runnergirl868]

Now here's another add-on question...what if you accidentally seen on his phone that he HAS done it with another guy?? I'm open but at least it's with another guy..if it's with another girl it would be ww3 nada divorce would be on his doorstep...

[kjjmama2b]

I dnt think it's normal. Any man that gets turned on by men havin sex with other men sounds gay...maybe

[Nellyzz]

regarding ur question i know it sounds odd but I would rather my man watch guys then girls..i really dont mind porn..its when they hide it from u...it really bugs me! why hide it??

[teregarcalva]

* my husband has been hit on by a lot of men but declines every time because he's 100% straight. I didn't finish that lol

[teregarcalva]

It's not abnormal hun. My mom took sexology and a lot of other classes while she was in college and when I asked if it's weird for people to watch same sex porn whether it be "gay" or "lesbian" she said no that some people are just more open with their sexuality. We both have plenty of "homosexual" friends and all of them say they hate same sex porn and prefer straight porn! Go figure. It doesn't mean he's bi sexual or gay it's just porn. A lot of men would be disgusted by gay porn but my husband and I watched it not like the whole video but just skim through (he was trying to convince to to have anal lol) and he wasn't grossed out but wasn't turned on. My husband has been hit on by a lot of men but he is 100% straight however if I asked him to watch gay porn with me he would. Your boyfriend may just be curious. I wouldn't make a big deal about it just because it may make him mad or feel like he's doing something wrong which in my head he isn't porn is porn he's not going out and trying to get with men you know. He may not be open with you about it because he's scared of your reaction. It would bug me a lot more that my SO hid it from me than the fact that he was watching it.

[Baby_Blueeex0]

I would definitely talk to him about that. I wouldn't say it's normal. My fiance goes on adult sites from time to time, but never a homosexual video :/

[DecemerMama]

Wow....that's weird..I would totally talk to him about it for the sake of your baby and y'alls relationship.