boyfriend

[saramay2014]

I feel like nothin ever goes right. He told me 2 hours ago hed be here soon n now hes still at home and idk if hes even commin. He hardly talks to me hardly spends time with me... i get so tired dealing with him and frustrated. He says he is gunna make things better and change but i honestly havnt seen anything get better or change or even him tryin. I feel like givin up

[Lala0712]

Sometimes men just take a little longer to adjust to a baby coming and they don't have the baby in them so they don't quite understand. If you would like gone him a little time after the baby is there and see how it goes.

But sometimes you have to realize that just because you're having a child together doesn't necessarily mean you're meant to spend the rest of your life with them.

[Clarag13]

From experience as well my bf wanted to leave me when he found out he wanted a break and get back together when he wanted. But i couldn't do that. Then we eventually did break up and now we still talk but he won't give up his life for a life with me and my baby. After a while i realized he's not worth waiting for if he doesn't love you the same way.

[marindamqz]

And 3 years later, we're married with another on the way. Both grown up and happy.

[marindamqz]

Helllllll no. I'd be pissed too. Especially not helping financially. Honestly, I wouldn't wait for him. My boyfriend didn't wanna give up his social life when I got pregnant, and we had plenty of issues before. He used to say that things would change, this and that. But it didn't. I finally sat him down and wasn't afraid to be a b****, I told him this was the last chance he had to shape up or get out. I loved and wanted him but if other things were more important,  I didn't need him standing in my way. I wasn't all soft all and sweet, I looked him in the eye and told him to tell me now what he was gonna do. And I pretty much whipped his butt into shape after that. You don't need that, ESPECIALLY being pregnant. Sit him down and tell him to either stay or go.

[saramay2014]

Bump

[saramay2014]

I love him and i want him to be in our babies life but he dont seeme like he wants to be. Ud think someone who cared would help buy things for their child or work on gettin a job or try to make money... try to streignthen the relationship that they are suposed to value.. but no nothing i feel like im not good enough for him or something... yet i know im way better than he is. Ive saved every cent i can for this baby... i continue every day to figure things out on my own cause im alone and he just aint gunna help. Its the same thing over and over and over

[saramay2014]

Ive gave him 10 months to change this ****. Even befor i was pregnant we were havin problems... i didnt expect immediate change but i expect it now cause he hasnt done crap. N now he isnt even talkin to me

[Meliza21]

If you give up then you will only be fulfilling your beliefs. All I can tell you is to be patient, because guys want to do things on their own time especially the emotional stuff, where as females want immediate change.