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boyfriends ex stalks us-anyone dealt with this?!?

Ok this is kind of a long story so here it goes. My boyfriend is estranged from his wife, she left when he almost died from a spinal tap bc almost all his spinal fluid drained out and he couldn't work so she left bc she was a gold digger. four months later he and I got together, and it has been amazing. BUT ever since he and I got together she has been a monster. she kept my boyfriends son from him bc he wouldn't leave me to go back to her (even though we now found out she has seen like 10 people since we have beeb tpgether) so for four months he didn't see his son. She habitually stalks us, everywhere we go she shows up. We were going to move out of state to get away from her and she filed a bogus emergency custody action saying we were going to kidnap the son which is bs bc we were moving so we could make money to get custody of him!! Her plan backfired and wr got 50/50 custody, but she is still tormenting me. she told my boyfriend he needs a paternity test which he doesn't believe but it makes me want to rip her face off. she constantly has her daughters across the street spying on us and yesterday I got threatened by some punk kid when the cops came of course the mini stalker was right there!! I am so stressed out bc i feel like i am living under a microscope and scared its gonna hurt the baby. has anyone else dealt with crazy exes?!?
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Wow what a crazy lady
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Omg!  My bfs ex is insane also! When we first got together she tried everything in her power to get us to break up I would sometimes believe all her lies until one day HER cousin called me and told me she was a liar and she was making up lies and putting things on fb that weren't true so I could see them so we would break up sadly for her it didn't work. She would drive past my house all the time and she even has followed us around a couple times. Shes always so concerned with his life is pretty pathetic. She uses her daughter against him so he doesn't get to see her. We moved outta state for a few month and one day she texted him saying she new he was back home which was funny cause we were still out of state. Well when we moved I left my dad my car and got a truck apparently she seen the car being the stalker she is she knew the license plate number and followed the car that night thinking it was my bf when it was my dad lol. Its best to ignore her bs cause if u give in to her nobsense she will feel as if she's winning. Nothing will make her feel more llike poop than to see u and ur bf happy together.
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