trust issues with husband since becoming pregnant?

[a_brooks]

so Basically This Is More Of A Rant. IM Not Sure If How I Feel About This Situation is Rational. My Husband Slowly Lost Interest In Sex With Me As I Hit 30 Weeks. I Had A Moment Of Weakness And Decided To Look.At His Phone And There Was Nothing Bad Other Then Him Talking To A Female Friend About Our Baby And What I Would.Normally Pass Off As Innocently Flirting. For Whatever Reason IM Seriously AngryAt Him For Discussing The Fact That He is Stressed About The Baby With This Girl Rather Than Coming To Me. I Had No.idea Until I Saw The Texts. He Mentioned How He Didn't.Know What To Do With A Baby And Sent RepliesThat Made It Seem Like He Was Totally Unhappy Abou Our Daughter. I ThinK What's Most Upsetting Is The Fact He's Saying All Of This To A Girl He Previously Had ASexual Thing With Before We met And Failed To Mention When He Introduced Us. Am I Over Reactin?

[teregarcalva]

It's understandable why your upset especially since he had sex with this girl. As for not twlling you these things maybe he's scared as to how you'll react or just doesn't want to put more stress on you. Some guys will stop having sex with their significant other at some point in pregnancy just because it freaks them out. I talk to my friends about stuff I feel I can't tell my husband at times and he does as well but we discuss it in the end and that's the only way things get resolved. Communication is key hun so sit down and ask him what's up.

[pregnantlady13]

My opinion is that if u dont feel comfortable with their relationshp especially if ur not the jealous type id go with that feeling u kno theres reasons y we feel sumthn funny at times we could be wrong but a woman knows her man if u kno wat i mean as for snooping thru his phone no way should u feel bad hes ur husband u have the right to do those things wen u feel somethngs not right also u r pregnant n that cud b y u feel this way it cud jus b ur hormones what ever u do good luck :)

[cinthia1995]

Just talk to him, that always helps .

[nay_josh]

No don't feel bad you had an intuitionyou wasent snooping just to snoop you had a reason and yeah a you don't like that he talks to her about your and his relationshil i wouldn't be comfortable with that either lol let him know how you feell

[a_brooks]

I've Been Up For Hours Tryin ToDecide If I'm Being Ridiculous. I'm Not A Jealous Person But Their Whole Relationship Makes Me Uncomfortable. He's Still Very LOving AndHad He Of Not Been Soooooooo Uninterested In Me Lately I Wouldn't Of Looked At HisPhone. I Feel Bad For Snooping And Feel Like I WentLooking For Something To Be Angry About

[mamaofone2be]

I would talk about it because if not your gonna keep it in you and its gonna bother you even more...n with our hormones its worse...n things are way bettet once you have them off your chest

[nay_josh]

I've read in books that men also freak out a luttle its completly normal for him to be.a little scared and wanting to share that with someone and maybe he didn't you thinking it would blow out of porportion because you are pregnant and hormones lol i wouldn't worry I'm sure he's just nervous especially if this is yalls first baby i wouldn't stress to much explain to him you would have wanted him to come to you i hope this helps god bless

[mamanavarro]

It would def bother me . I would bring it up to him and just talk to him about it all. And have him be open with you. Tell him youre scared too .