I've never heard of regular sex helping with recovery. We didn't have sex for the last 3mths of my last pregnancy and I was up 24hrs after my csection. It was however the 4th major surgery I'd had in 5yrs so I think knowing the physio exercises, when to cut back on the meds, and how to protect my body when moving around helped. Wishing you lots of luck with this one!
All I can say is he'll find out. I couldn't move more than 10 feet from my bed when I had my second baby. He better be able to book time off of work.
I don't have a removable showerhead. I've tried talking to him he just turns a deaf ear. I flipped a little while ago at him. He keeps on thinking I'm in a pissy mood when I'm not. I'm nervous and depressed. He hasn't said anything negative or make excuses.
I'm still nervous of a repeat recovery like with my second child.
Removable shower head? Haha...
If he won't do anything for you or to you, then i think you should have a talk with him about using toys until you're recovered. Then it can be back to however he wants it to be. But we have needs too and if he isn't going to satisfy them for you, he shouldn't be able to complain about you doing it yourself..
Lol. Not a chance. He won't even hug or kiss me.