christmas with the inlaws

[Slugger09]

alright. this might just be me venting. this year was my boyfriend and mines year to go visit his family for christmas (they live 10 hours away) i will be 6 months pregnant and those roads are horrible in the winter and we arent going to risk it seeings how its my first pregnancy and im not good on long drives. now im having issues with the inlaws. anyone else not wanting to travel over christmas time and having a similar issue? thoughts?

[Slugger09]

thanks ladies for lettin me vent and givin your input

[Slugger09]

wouldnt*

[anujanu1]

Stick to ur safety ..see how ur bf stands up for these r d areas WHR u can judge his credibility.
Boys r always like tht thy do forget evn gals are daddy gals
Chill enjoy ur xsms pple make fuzz anyways

[Slugger09]

she also doesnt understand the risks and what could happen as my boyfriend was addopted. so she has been really underestimating how im feeling and such. and wondering why i feel sick after they would stop somewhere while driving so i could eat lunch

[Slugger09]

they asked if he would come by himself. and he said he wants to stay with me and he doesnt drive at the moment so i would be the one driving anyway and i have been getting really car sick. and the baby is due middle of march so we were planning on doing a vacation around july.

[LLLmoma]

There is always next year that way it will be more fun and why not you an bf spend Christmas together this year since you guys always be with his family during Christmas or just take the plan

[stephanie1002]

So why can't they come to your house this year..? And I know what u mean. My bf was such a mamas boy.. And honestly we are literally fighting about his parents right now. We do not get along what so ever.

[waylonandscarlett]

Maybe he could go by himself? That doesn't seem to bad but then again I'm sure you want to spend time with him on Xmas. Either way the safety of your child comes first.

[82ljones821]

My husband an daughter an I go to my foster moms for thanksgiving but I will be about 33 wks then and its a 9hr drive. Needless to say we are not going but as a compromise we are going for Easter baby is due mid jan so timing is decent. :) maybe you could go for a different holiday?

[Slugger09]

thats what i said. we told them that we were going to come down next year for the babies firat christmas. and then just had to start ignoring her from there. he was kind of a mommas bpy when i first met him so i think the main issue is that his mom thinks im stealing him from her

[stephanie1002]

I don't have that happening. But honestly you are pregnant and don't need the stress. Your boyfriend needs to stand up for you and his family And tell his parents that it's not anything against them but as of right now your priority.