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[tana643]

So my parents now know on pregnant and well clearly are not thrilled.....    My mom hold me o have to leave and can't stay on her house which is also my dads house unless I have an abortion. I'm honestly contemplating it considering the baby's dad is in detox as I write this and he stole upwards of 10 grand worth of jewelry from my mother and I so I understand they don't want me attached to him for the rest of my life I get that but it still my  baby but I know I can't aford it. And I k.ow there are like 40 million people that would rather this child why me why now....

[tana643]

We just found out more jewelry  is missing I have cut off all ties except the fact that this is his child to so he's tied to me  forever....  Idk I guess god will help me decide. Soon I hope.  

[christal2]

Everything happens for a reason. May not be clear now, but eventually you will understand.

[greatexpectations_4_2012]

Adoption is the best option. You said yourself that 40 million people would want it. You are right. That baby shouldn't be punished because it's dad done wrong. Plus, there are people who would take the baby and love it beyond belief.

[Clysta]

If I recall you had said not to long ago that he stole $4,000 from your family. Did he take more after this occurred, and are you still with this person? If so, you definitely need to cut off any ties and all contact with him. You had also said that you make decent money with your job, and depending on what you make you can also qualify for government aid. I would not recommend or suggest abortion - I also recall you've said you have one previously, and wouldn't do it again. Don't do it just because your family says to. If you know 100% you can't have a baby, you could also look into other routes such as adoption - there are millions of couples out there who would give anything to have a baby, and it is the most selfless thing you can do.