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[sarloubaker2515]

Just found out I'm ten weeks pregnant and I sit down with fiance to talk. About it and I find out he's been flirting with other girls even has pictures on Facebook with them....how am I supposed to feel plus he called me fat....

[sarloubaker2515]

Thanks guys. It just hurts but I'm gonna be the best mommy I possibly can to my little miracle:)

[mangojellybean]

Well first of all congrats on your bundle of joy!! I would highly suggest that you sit him down and remind him of who you are to him...and thats not only his future wife but the woman who will bring his child into the world...if I were you id tell him to man up and focus on the treasures he has or you may need to move on. No one should feel the heartache of realizing that your partner is a notorious hound but to go through the stress of it while pregnant can be very hard on your baby.

[Jonnybear]

:( I'm so sorry that happened to you mine cheated on me when I was in my second trimester I know it's hard.. I can't tell you what to do all I can say is I hope things work out for you..

[agalambos]

We love in a really crappy time as far as men go.  They aren't very responsible and they aren't very loyal.  Remember that you are a person who deserves to be treated well,  no matter what.  Maybe he just flirts, and it makes him feel good.  Or Maybe,  it will lead him to cheat. Either way,  if it really hurts you He should stop. If He it's deceiving you at all,  trust is going to be something you struggle with in your relationship for a long time.  I speak from experience.  Be strong- you don't need a man to take care of you. I went to school full time during and after my pregnancy,  and worked not because I had to but because I wanted to make sure I will always be able to take care of myself and my child. I have a good husband now- my daughter is 5, I'm expecting another. But I have watched SO many of my friends get dumped on by dead beats,  and I refused to ever let that happen to me. I hope you do the same- know that you are valuable and can do anything as long as you work hard and remember your baby needs you to be strong.  You will be this child's model: if it's a girl you will teach her how to be treated by a man, if it's a boy you will show him how a woman should be treated. Keep that in mind!

[mommyashley2014]

Don't stress out congrats