Depending on how far along you are it wouldn't be possible to get a good picture with an abdominal US. Don't be too upset about it
Yep, thats pretty typical for a first appointment. Agreed they should have told you what they were about to do before they do it but welcome to the medicalisation of the female body. Most drs don't have a great 'bedside manner'. I think my drnis amazing due to his knowledge and how he managed my last high risk pregnancy, not so much his communication skills.
I asked like a thousand times if I was getting one so my husband would be present. I didn't want him to miss it so it keeps asking.
But I expected a normal ultrasound not vaginal they didn't inform me any of this would be done
They didnt tell me an ultrasound would be done either! Im still upset to this day about it because my baby daddy missed it and whenever I bring up sonos he just gets really upset that he missed the first one :'( . The thing that kinda helps is remembering that your probably gonna have another child later on....and that will be the one you will for sure know they will do a sono at first! Yeah, its not the same as the first, but it still gives your mom something to look forward to! Thats how we are kind of looking at it.
That's what they did to me on my first appointment
That's what they do at the first appointment
Thats the normal thing for a first prenatal check up.
I've always had those done at a first appointment. Except for the ultrasound. Usually they tell you before they do that.