single mommy by choice

[18andExpectingJulyBaby]

I think its time I walk away from my boyfriend. He just can't get his **** together. I'm 22 weeks and I'm the only one with a job. I don't ask for much. But it'd be nice to not be buying all this baby stuff alone.
I feel like this is the wrong thing to do. But I can't jeep emotionally and financially draining myself anymore.  I just keep thinking of my little girl.. how will this affect her ): I don't know I'm sick of crying...

[spurlock13]

Do what you feel is best from e reading all the stuff us mommy's post a lot of us have went threw thr same things and some leave and we turn out better for leaving but some stay and things work out i guess it just has to do witg how much you and your boyfriend are willing to do for your relationship. Hopefully you get what you want but if not just think like i did you now have a precious little gift from god that will love you no matter what.. good luck

[18andExpectingJulyBaby]

Thank you so much ladies ! I appreciate all the support!

[LadyBeeley]

I admire you! You got it together way more than you think. And while its so heartbreaking, what is meant to be WILL come together. If you choose to move on for the sake of you and baby then maybe everything else will fall into place. I left my sperm donor at 9wks bc he lied and missed my u/s saying he was buying a crib n he bought a motorcycle. Now I have someone who is so grateful for me in his life he calls my daughter his, and she pretty much is. If you dont look for it, things will come to you. You have support whatever your choice momma!

[Ohbebebaby]

# Can't Raise A Man!!!
Its easier to do it alone.

[TippaShay]

Now is the time for him to be providing for you and baby so tell him I'm no longer comfortable in this situation.  Maybe tell him he has a couple of weeks to step up and if he can't then you have to move on just you and baby. Try to find peace and stsy strong you have proven to be able to stand alone if needed just try to keep a positive outlook.  You will truly know when its time to throw in the towel and walk away. Wish you the best!!!!

[Muvenda]

Do whats best 4 you and your kid. If he does'nt care now how will he bond with the baby. He deserves a kick. U can start by asking 4 a lil space, maybe 2weeks n see if maybe he cares he just does'nt know how 2 show it or get involved. If in those 2weeks he still does'nt seem to worry or care about u or the baby give him a kick.

[MissMandaK0214]

You gotta do whats best for you and your baby. It sounds to me like you are much more mature and trying to prepare for your baby and hes not. Maybe you leaving will be a wake up call for him to get **** together and try to fix it for your child. Stay strong momma!
Lots of love ♥

[18andExpectingJulyBaby]

Sorry not a question or anything but crying alone in bed and needed to vent