Sad Momma ):

[taya096]

I have a bicornuate uterus. (Dip that separates my left and right side) At 30 weeks and 5 days I had my 4D ultrasound. Come to find out that since my son is on the left side, he can't really go into the right since it is blocked only his legs dangle over there, the bigger he gets he probably will not have room to turn. Therefore, I more than likely have to have a c-section. Another thing is with my uterus the way it is, I have a very high chance of preterm labor. I am extremely upset that I probably won't get to reliever natural like I wanted. ): I'm a big mommies girl and have really bad anxiety and you can only have one person in the room for a c-section. Of course I won't deny my fiancé that privilege of being in there, I just want my mom too. And I'm just really scared. ):

[taya096]

I guess if it is okay with the doctors you can have two in there! So I'll get both. But if not, I think my fiancé can keep me calm. I will also be asking for something to calm my anxiety.

[GSYoung]

Yea I understand that he would probably want to see baby as soon as he's born but it's also a matter of your comfort, being scared isn't gonna help. If you think he can do a good job of comforting you then he should be there and you'll know moms right outside the door, but if it's that scary it could mess with your vitals and it would really be better if the person who is more comforting be there with you. Communication is key just talk to him about it. If he really really wants to be there then let him be there :) otherwise tell ur mom you need her

[taya096]

I don't wanna bump him for her because that is his son too. I'm just really really scared.

[GSYoung]

Talk to your fiancé, I'm sure he will understand that you want your mum there. I'm a huge momma's girl too I can't do anything without my momma to back me up. I know my hubby wouldn't want to be there for a c section he's queezy lol

[taya096]

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