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dealing with my babys death

Yesterday I found at my baby had died at 19 weeks. I was heart broken.  That was the first time I ever saw my baby on the ultrasound and it was dead. The baby died resting its head on its hands.  I am scheduled to go into labor on Monday but my mom is gonna see if I can get there sooner. I cried all night and I cant stop crying. They dont know why baby died. I  am 19 and that was my first baby. I just dont understand why :(
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7463033 tn?1399311106
I am so sorry ):  thats just awful and I can only imagine how you're feeling . Just remember everything will work itself out and your baby is an angel now and will always be with you .
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I am very sorry for your loss sweet girl. On the 18th of february, I went into preterm labor at 22 weeks and lost both of my sons. If no someone hasn't gone through a loss like this,then they won't ever inderstand how we feel. You are probably really depressed or sad right now, and you don't understand why it happen and why it happen to you, and you never will understand. But it gets better, you must stay strong for your baby. One day, yku will meet him/her again in heaven. You have an angel following you waiting for it's mommy! Stay strong. Praying for you. It's not ever going to be easy... but it WILL get better. Promise.
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Really really sorry for ur loss. Dont give up hun, ur baby will always be in ur heart n watchin over u. Everythin happen for a reason.i wish u all the best.. :(
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Sorry for your loss
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I'm so sorry for you loss love. .. my prayers go to you and your family. .. just know you have a angel with you always. ..
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463897 tn?1468013750
Hi,

We are very sorry for your loss.  Please let us know if we may be of any assistance at this very difficult time.

Best,

Cheryl
MH Community Mgr
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Im so sorry for your lost, reading this brings tears. :( Just knw your baby is a guardian angel now & watching over mommy. Prayers go out to you & may God be w you
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7649706 tn?1396014742
That happened with my last pregnancy . Now I am pregnant again I am 12 weeks 5 days and I'm afraid I might miscarry again. Sorry for your loss I know how you feel.
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7454812 tn?1391877431
Wow. I'm Sorry praying for you!
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I just lost my baby girl at 20 weeks, last Nov 6th... i promise u will find peace in knowing ur lil one is in better hands. My child right before i delivered was told to have a rare disorder... she should have been an twin but insted held onto all of the chromasomes and would have had many birth difects. I know it was really hard for me to take in, as it is hard for u to loose any child believe me when i say god had a bigger need for ur child. He wants u to have a healthy beautiful child and that this loss was not the right child for u. Hold ur head up high and keep trying... the chances of another problem the next time is slimm to none! I was told to abort my child before she passed away. I couldnt end her life and i know she went the way she did to help me from making that choice.
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6519447 tn?1391770769
Im so sorry! I wish I could take your pain away. This breaks my heart makes me so sad and cry for you.
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I Miscarried In Between My Kids. I Still Remember Seeing The Ultrasound Even Though  It Was 6 Years Ago This Month. I Just Wanted To Say As Much As It Hurts Its Important To Find Out The Sex And Name Your Angel. I'm Sorry For Your Loss. It Will Get Easier.
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Very sorry for your loss. I'm sure that you are suffering so much! You should name your baby if you haven't already. That's very helpful in keeping them in a special place in your heart.
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I am so sorry. I know exactly what you are going through. For 18 months I went through 4 miscarriages and it broke me completely. In the end I said this is enough I want to give my body a rest 4 days later when I went to get my implant put in they told me I was pregnant. I was terrified im now 13 days from my due date for some reason this one was meant to be. I'll never now why I lost those other babys but for me miracles do happen. And it will happen for you I promise. X
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What were ur symptoms??:(
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How did it happen...? This scares me...
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6441395 tn?1395036211
I will keep you in my prayers,  just remember you have a angel baby in heaven watching over you♥
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Awe hun im so sorry :'( I had a stillborn at 23 weeks+5 days. Its gonna be a long healing process.I wish I could take your pain away
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7246896 tn?1392863749
Sorry for your lost prayers are going up
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7702223 tn?1394319054
I feel so bad. My sister had to go through the same thing and it was very hard on our whole family. You just have to be strong and remember your baby is an angel now.
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Im so very sorry for your loss!! I do understand your feelings I had one at 15 and 17 weeks. I have 2 healthy children and one on the way. They went in and cleaned me out while I was out. I preferred not to be awake. I want you to know as hard as it is please remember we all have our own journey. For some reason this happened to u and its definatly hard sometimes why things happen but please stayas positive as you can.  This will be a emotion journey for you but All of us are here for you!! I send you my prayers and blessing please let us all know how you are doing!!
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If youre a first time, its not very uncommon to lose the first unfortunately. If not, sometimes babies just miscarry. Just remember youve got an angel always with you now. Im sorry for your loss.
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