dealing with your boyfriends family

[bryleefulk12]

My boyfriend had court today, and it turned out great. He gets to come home in two in a half weeks (: I'll have my daughter by them, but I'm happy hes coming home! As I was leaving his step mom got in my face, keep in mind I'm 4 days away from my due date, and she called me a *****, a ****, a ***** and everything else all because I tired to ask my boyfriends dad a question. I don't care that they don't like me, but how do I get them to leave me alone? It annoying and my boyfriend does stick up for me but they don't listen. How do I deal with them? I love my boyfriend but I can only take so much

[bryleefulk12]

Thanks ladies (: she really doesn't like anyone. My boyfriend has a 6 year old son. I get along perfect with his bm, but no surprise here, his step mom hates her to for no reason.

[mommaDof3]

She sounds classy lol. I feel bad for the people who do have to be around her and especially for her.  She must be so unhappy with herself and her life that she acts that way towards others. It's honestly not you she doesn't like,  it's herself and she will do anything to avoid admitting that to herself.  Enjoy your babies and the relationship you have with your boyfriend. As long as he is on your side then you will be fine. And as fas as the harassing messages go, I would save them all and report her to the police department, don't take that crap from her.

[bryleefulk12]

True. I mean his step mom doesn't even like him at all. She hates him and doesn't care about him.

[bryleefulk12]

I mean I can understand why they would be a little iffy about me. I was pregnant when I met my boyfriend, but we have been together for 6 months almost 7 and he thinks of my daughter as his. I can understand why his family would be a little worried, but the fact that they constantly call me names and put me down bugs me. I had no control over my babies real fsrhwr not being in her life, it was his choice. So they shouldn't judge me. I never ask them for anything, and I never will. He chose to be with me, they should accept it and move on. Its not the worst thing in the world lol

[RockRose]

Well,  since your boyfriend is probably not at all attached to her,  it seems like the thing to do is completely ignore her.  It's not like you're dealing with a mom who loves her son and you have to balance how they treat you.

[Lucy1813]

Also with him taking their side things will only get worse. Before I got married my boyfriend always did and I put my foot down so he finally stood up to them.

[bryleefulk12]

Yeah its just annoying. I don't go to their house or anything. They don't want me around, and I don't want to be around them.

[Lucy1813]

That's how it is with us too. His mom basically disowned him because his stepdad (who has been there since he was 2) doesn't like me so they treat him horrible. He learned to ignore it also because they are his parents. We go around them as little as possible. We don't try making an effort anymore.

[bryleefulk12]

His real mom passed away when he was only a baby. His dad has been with his step mom for about 4 years. She kicked him out and he came to stay with me and my family. I really can't stand her. She's in her 40s, I'm only 19 and yet she still gets in my face trying to stress me out knowing I'm having a baby Friday.

[bryleefulk12]

I don't even pay them no mind. She will write be on Facebook being nasty to me and I ignore them. She doesn't even like my boyfriend. She is one of those that thinks she's perfect and everyone else is a terrible person.

[Lucy1813]

I have the same problem with my husbands mom and stepdad. I just ignore them. Don't talk to them or go there unless he his with me because they are always nice if he is around. I do not try to contact or talk to his mom. I let her come to me if she needs something.

[CurtisMommy]

Girl im going through the samething but honestly **** their ***** .. they dont have to like u .. as long as ur boyfriend is there who gives a **** .. their missing out .. like u and him and ur babygirl are a team now **** them .. pay their miserble ***** no mind