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I am so tired of peoples comments about me and my pregnancy...I dont know if they realize that I do have feelings and they hurt them when they open their big mouth! Last night a costumer at work told me I just started looking pregnant (I am 30 weeks) and that before I just looked like I was gaining weight I was like ok?? & this is the costumer that pretty much invited herself to my baby shower soo mad...so anyways right after that a co worker said to me my dad said u dont even look pregnant and that he asked me if they baby shower was for u or u were throwing it for someone else (I met her dad last week since hes helping me rent a hall for my baby shower) so I was like ok?? Whatever I guess...and last week I get the "u look like ur about to pop" like seriously on top of that when I go out I guess people have a staring problem amd stare at me and my belly and its so awkward! Like im just so tired of people being so ignorant and rude!
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Yea ! Don't let it get to you bc I'm told I don't look pregnant and I'm 6 months ! Everyone assumes I just have a pudge under my t shirt and doesn't say anything until I voluntarily mention that I'm pregnant smh I take it all in stride ! I'd like to think it's God's funny way of telling me that I won't have stretch marks lol and I'm mixed with Asian so I look young for my age, I could pass for 15 easy if I wanted to . Yet again, I take those states as a compliment bc it's God's funny way of saying "Imma be a hot mom" :)
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Honey. Those are compliments. Who cares if your tiny? Ah... Awesome! Be upset when they say, you look like a buffalo or something lol. None of these things bother me but that's just me.
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Yea! Thats how I feel when theyr like oh ur 7 months? U just started to look pregnant ur baby was prob not growing before like wtff?
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Ya know I never really cared if people told me I was big or about to pop. It seriously pi ssed me off though if they told me I looked small or told me I wasn't big enough for the month I was in.  I felt like they were saying something was wrong with my baby.  
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Lol yea with both my pregnancy my sister would call me fatty. She was joking and everything. But one day I had enough and told her if she calls me fatty one more time Im gonna punch her in her face. She stopped after that. Lol
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Honey I have two kids and pregnant with my 3rd im currently 32 weeks never really showed with none of mines so when people said oh your so small or are you sure you are pregnant I would tell them along as the doctor dont see a problem why should you or I would say at least I dont have stretch marks
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Yes they are seriously so judgemental...its.like mind your own, worry about ur life not mine...and like stop calling pregnant people fat haha!
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I agree I went to grocery store this one time with my daughter who is 1 and I was like 36 weeks pregnant at that time also. Well I turned down this row and there was a man and women standing there talking about young girls getting pregnant and how girls these days are so sluty. And they kept starting at me the whole time they were having the conversation. I just kept staring back at them.
U know I don't no why people need to be like that because for 1) I am married I have a ring on my finger and 2) I am 25 years old. So they have no reason to be judging me. They were assuming that I'm 18 with a baby and one on the way. People r just assholes
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