I miscarried Sunday.

[babybump]

I miscarried on sunday at 10 weeks, 5 days. I heard its heartbeat 2 weeks ago, then all of a sudden miscarried.  If anyone has any questions, please feel free to ask.

[chantal21]

I'm so sorry! I know what you are going through. I had a miscarriage last June at 10 weeks and at 7w3d I saw the heartbeat and everything was fine. Then out of nowhere I miscarried. I am so sorry and I will be praying for you. <3

[babbles123]

how did you know you miscarried?  Were there any symptoms?

[babbles123]

did the doc have an explanation for the m/c?

[babbles123]

did the doc have an explanation for the m/c?

[Nadia77]

I am very sorry for your lost... must be very difficult....wishing a happy and healthy pregnancy next time..

[babybump]

At about 6 weeks, I started having discharge that was greyish, not really like anything I've had before.  Then brown discharge, then red spotting.  I called the doc, did an U/S, everything looked fine.  My labs were low, so he put me on progesterone supp.  after about a week of those, I stopped bleeding, then saturday I started spotting blood again.  I waited it out, then started having cramps every 5 minutes.  Then started bleeding heavily.  Went to the ER, and had a miscarriage in the hosp bathroom. So much blood and huge clots.  Lots and clots of clotty material.  5 hours later the doctor saw me, took some remaining tissue out and I went to my ob yesterday.

I just wished I didn't hear the hearbeat.  It was alive and it died :(  My tiny baby died :(

[babybump]

No explanation for the m/c.  He said it could have not developed normally, or I could have naturally low hormone levels.  They really don't know why.

[ftogirl]

I am so sorry.  I remember when I m/c that feeling- you can't describe knowing that you saw that little heartbeat and then knowing that the heartbeat is gone.  I felt so helpless, wishing I could have helped it somehow.  But you will get through this.  Grieve for your precious little angel.  That little one will always be a part of you.  My prayers are with you.

[depressed748]

I am so sorry for you lost....I will keep you in my prayers...i know how devastated this can be.

[leighanne143]

i am so sorry.  i had a missed MC in oct 07 and it was horrible.  Keep your head up and talk to all of us about it.

[MIMI1980]

Am so sorry to hear your sad news, i too went through this once and know what a devastating time you are having. My thaughts and prayers are with you xxxx

[swade]

I am sooo sorry for you loss.. Hang in there.. Will be thinkin of you.. I saw the heartbeat too and lost my baby at 12 weeks.. Keep your head up, you will get pg again.. I did three months later, and now I am 22 wks..

[luvmybabes]

I am so so sorry for what you are going through. I can't imagine the pain. I guess all I can say is God has a plan for you and I hope someday that plan includes everything you want. I wish you the best of luck. I know you will never get over it but i do hope you'll be feeling better soon. God bless you.

-Kel

[MOM23ANGELS25F]

*Huge Huggers* I AM SO SORRY HON!!!! Are you ok ? I know what your going through.. I'm here if you need to talk....

[KellyA74]

I'm so sorry that you're going thru this....I had a m/c last month and know how hard it is...although I didn't hear heartbeats....that's how they knew something was wrong......I saw my twins in their little sacs though, and kind of wish I hadn't looked at the screen b/c now I can't get the picture out of my head.....How are you holding up?  Thoughts and prayers are with you.....

[pepemint]

wow, I am so sorry. I know first hand how incredibly hard this is for you. I hope you have people you can talk to...and you know you can always talk to us as well.

HUGS!!!!!!!!!

I am 10 weeks now...had an ultrasound at 7 wks, 3 days (same as you) and everything was normal. Now I am a nervous wreck.

Again,I am so sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine!!! I hope everything works out for the best for you and you can have a happy, healthy pregnancy next time. Don't give up hope...I have had several miscarriages...but it doesn't mean I can't have a baby. I have a wonderful, healthy 6 year old with no complications at all with that pregnancy. So don't give up.

[pepemint]

wow, I am so sorry. I know first hand how incredibly hard this is for you. I hope you have people you can talk to...and you know you can always talk to us as well.

HUGS!!!!!!!!!

I am 10 weeks now...had an ultrasound at 7 wks, 3 days (same as chantal21) and everything was normal. Now I am a nervous wreck.

Again,I am so sorry you are going through this. I can't imagine!!! I hope everything works out for the best for you and you can have a happy, healthy pregnancy next time. Don't give up hope...I have had several miscarriages...but it doesn't mean I can't have a baby. I have a wonderful, healthy 6 year old with no complications at all with that pregnancy. So don't give up.

[pepemint]

sorry, not sure why that posted twice.....i don't guess there is a way to delete a post is there????

[babybump]

Thank you so much for your kind words.  The worst part was, I thought it was going to be fine.  The bleeding stopped, then just out of nowhere it happened.  I feel so bad that I may have flushed it.  

I just wish I knew why.  I keep thinking of things I may have done to cause this.  I know at the time of conception my husband and I were tipsy.  It was around the holiday season and before I knew I was pregnant, I was going to parties and drinking.  I never got drunk, just tipsy.  I also smoked cigarettes too, only socially.  I conceived 12/10 and found out 12/31. I stopped all that the moment I found out. I am afraid that my smoking and drinking during these times may have caused it.  I also drank coffee every day until I found out.

I just feel so guilty because, even though I was planning to have the baby and was excited, sometimes I would get scared because I had nothing prepared, I don't have a house, I live in an apartment, childcare costs were on my mind, I know I could have handled it some how.  I just remember thinking that this didn't happen at a good time.  Now that my baby's gone, I feel so bad for thinking these things. I feel like it knew we weren't ready for it and thats why it miscarried.  I have such guilt.  I feel like I made is miscarry.  :'(

[michelle148]

Stop being so hard on yourself, M/C happens to unfortunately too many women, I too M/C late November and like you started to blame myself but i knew deep down that it just wasnt meant to be and thats why it happened, not a day goes by when i dont think about it and that will always be the case until a new baby comes along to take away the pain, not that i will ever forget having my M/C but at least the pain will be eased as i will giving all my attention to a lil one i so badly want. Too many of us suffer this pain of a M/C so we are all here to help you, guide you and reassure you in any way we can, please open up and talk to us as a problem shared is a problem solved as we dont want you to blame yourself we are here to tell you that it isnt your fault its unfortunately a way of life and you, me and so many others on here have had to unfortunately experience.x

[chantal21]

Please don't blame yourself. You didn't do anything to cause this! Sometimes it just happens and we may never know exactly why. God does everything for a reason and we need to just trust that He knows what is best for us. I miscarried twice...both times my doctors had no idea why it happened. I wanted to blame myself because I thought it was something I had done. But I just prayed that God had a reason for it. I'm sure you will be blessed soon with a precious little one! =) Try to stay positive and know that all of us are here for you anytime you need to talk.  <3