divorce & pregnancy

[married_mommyof2]

So at this moment n time i am not happy with my husband nd i havent been since ive been pregnant. Hes just stressing me out and making me mad n making me cry.. nd he doesnt understand nun that i feel. Do u think its time to let him go? Or is it to much while im pregnant. Help plz

[Mdbeezy]

Soo..I had this happen. Basically I couldn't stand my now exhusband while I was pregnant..but it was because of a huge number of things that were going on. What he said, what he did, how he acted, etc. I waited until we had our second child and still kept trying to make it work even though I couldn't stand him more times than not. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and it was obvious that it was unhealthy so I left him. That was almost a year ago and were just getting the papers signed for divorce and custody. It's not something I would personally do during pregnancy just because a lot of the times were mentally all over the place.

[wife_and_mama2014]

Yes, she can do what she pleases. Exactly my point. You have a good day as well.

[aali4]

@wife_and_mama2014: A question was asked; You stated your opinion, & I stated mine. She can do whatever she chooses, it's her life. She also can speak for herself. Have a good day.

[kelllyxoxo]

Yeah I hate my husband right now. He's been making me upset all day. and I know it's because I'm pregnant

[MahMahBeaR]

I wanna kill my husband at days too n wish it was all done but then i remember my wedding the day we met n our children n thos moments i will never forget n it hits me like hey this a marriage of 2 n this will never be perfect but we have to try for the ones we love n like the girls said till death do us apart :)

[wife_and_mama2014]

^^^Yes, it's til death do you part, but there are exceptions. You can't tell anyone they have no choice but to stay lol. That's ultimately up to her. She doesn't need to feel guilted into staying. But I agree, like I said before, unless he's doing something harmful to you, I'd work on it and see how things are once baby comes. Men don't know how to act sometimes when their women are pregnant. Give him a chance, but don't feel forced to stay if you're terribly unhappy.

[aali4]

Marriage is suppose to be "Until Death Us Part" not until he makes you sad, mad, or makes you cry. Pregnant or not. So, no I believe you should "let him go". You should tell him know how you feel. I know you're just looking for advice, but remember that's a choice YOU would have to live with. Praying for you and your marriage & Congrats on your baby!

[Missleah1991]

I hate my husband right now. Even small things like not putting his shoes up set me off. I blame it on the hormones and pray things go back to normal after I have our baby.

[minna1996]

Take some time to yourself do not stress and really think about it. He was worth fighting for for the last 4 years so it may be your hormones

[married_mommyof2]

Weve been together 4 yrs nd always have had problems like this off and on.but now I'm really getting tired of it..i feel so sad sometimes tha makes me ship sick i throw up cuz i feel so stressed

[wife_and_mama2014]

Unless you are sure that's what you want, I wouldn't make that decision while pregnant. Not while you're stressed, hormonal, and not fully yourself. Have a talk with him and tell him how you're feeling. Only you can decide this for yourself. But unless he is physically or verbally abusing you, abusing drugs or alcohol or cheating, I would definitely work on it with him. If you love him. Marriage is work and men can be SO ridiculous and stubborn. But so can we. So talk with him before doing anything rash. Good luck :)

[minna1996]

A lot of your problems may just be because your hormone levels right now. If theres somewhere you can stay for a couple nights i would take some space to really think through everything