My baby daddy and I have decided to get all the important people in our life and reveal the gender at a BBQ. It will also be my baby daddy birthday so it will be nice. We plan to know the gender and just reveal it for our family and friends in a cute way. I'll be doing a raffle for people who voted correctly but I was also thinking about asking for people to bring a pack of diapers for another raffle. I don't know if that's a good idea since I'll only be about 20 weeks at the BBQ is it okay to ask for that? I mean if you bring a pack you'll get a raffle ticket to win a gift card. What do you think?