I know im truely in love with him
Communication is key to a relationship, as well as trust. If he tells it just to make you happy or because that's what you want to hear, that means he doesn't care for you in that way and your relationship will not last. Love and lust are commonly confused, and you both need to work out if you truly love each other or love what you get out of it.
Im scared if I do he just tell me wat he thinks I wanna hear I need away to have him tell on is own with feelin conered
Just come right out and ask him. Guessing or beating around the bush won't really get you anywhere, so it's best to just get right to the point.