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Some of you might already know I'm 18years old and in high school. It's my senior year which means senior prom. something I've dreamed of going to and It is next month. I'm not showing that much and I really wanna go but no singles are aloud. U have to have a date of the opposite sex..so one of my friends was going to ask Me but some jerk told him taking me to the prom would b just like taking anther boy because I look A LOT like my brother. Which is true..but I still look like a girl! It's really knocked down my  confidence...and now I keep thinking about when I actually start to show..I feel like ill never date again..sorry for the teen drama. Im just really down in the dumps
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2020005 tn?1628125976
^same.. had more fun too!
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I skipped my senior prom to hang out with my 2yr old son. I don't feel as tho I missed out on anything.
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Thank u for understanding and sticking up for me:) I'll see what happens tomorrow and ask a close friend.
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I agree with KTowne. Yes she's 18 and pregnant but that does not mean she can't complain about not being able to enjoy her high school prom. And she says nothing about not being able to go because of her pregnancy. She can't go without a date. Not because shes pregnant. I wish I was having a few drinks right now with my hubby so I could come back home and have some kinky sex but I can't do that because I'm 22 weeks pregnant and even if I wasn't pregnant I still couldn't because I have 4 little ones that depend on me and daddy.
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2020005 tn?1628125976
Well you won't know til you try.. don't let your confidence go down if they say no, they are teenage boys, they automatically think they will be judged going with someone who's pregnant, a true friend wouldn't even question it. I hope you get to go, and I hope you have a great time!
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4850939 tn?1370543309
Aww im sorry hun u deserve to go out and enjoy urself and twins its twice the blessing im sure if u jsut ask em to go with u as friends theyll understand and say yes if not there dbags but def try to go live while u still can
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4658567 tn?1364142123
That's crap that you have to have a date for prom!!! Seriously I would complain a lot to the school.. That's basically trying to weed out people who aren't into dating or might be gay.. Just wrong and don't agree at all!!!
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The baby daddy was in the picture. He passed away. He was in the army. And yes my pregnancy was  unexpected but I'm still really excited. And I know ill have to give up a lot I'm having twins to so thats twice as much. But this is something im not wanting to give up. And I think the babies might enjoy dancing. Lol. And I do have close guy friends. But I feel like if they say no my confidence will go down even more
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2020005 tn?1628125976
Well of course she is going to have bumps.. I'm 22 and still have bumps where I wish man I could go and have dinner with my husband, or go to a movie with a friend, but I don't, because I have two kids.. it doesn't matter how old you are to want to do something but can't because your pregnant or a mom.
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4850939 tn?1370543309
I really wish this site had like buttons like on fb for ppls comments
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4850939 tn?1370543309
I would just show up with whoever the **** I want what can they do about it! No one is ruining my prom lol Thats so annoying and im not even gay or single! Im guessing ur baby daddy isnt in the picture?
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1422814 tn?1333569702
Well, when you really start to show, you're body will be curvier than any boy's body and your breasts will be, well, how do I say, the "highlights" of the curves. Let me also say that high school boys have girlish-looking bodies, they have yet to fill out themselves. (Maybe that's why I never dated my high school classmates, always went for the older ones.) I hope you find a fun, respectable date for the prom. You deserve it!
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2020005 tn?1628125976
that's terrible!! I hope you get to go.. why don't you ask someone? you dont have a close guy friend?
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I live in a small/religious town. I think that has something to do with the gays. My school has very  strict policies
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Yea my schools not really far. And I haven't talked to that so called friend in awhile now:/
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4850939 tn?1370543309
I totally agree with ktowne btw whats up a date of the opposite sex thats messed for gay ppl and for girls who dont have dates and wanna go with there friends
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2020005 tn?1628125976
first of all, wtf to having to have a date!?!? and 2nd, that's so rude..if your friend won't ask you because of that he's not a very good friend. I'm sorry hun :(
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