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feel awful about this....

I just turned 39 weeks and my bf and I are having a baby girl. Im just havin a problem with being around anyone especially kids. Well he has his 2 yr son visiting and I just cant stand whining right now. I feel easily annoyed but also feel really bad that im being like this. I cant help it but just get frustrated that he gives into his whineyness all the time.  Hes a great dad for sure but just needed to vent a bit. Not sure how to go about this but just hiding from everyone In the room. Any advice from anyone would be nice to hear.
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8654668 tn?1412565128
I know how u feel..I m in the same situation with my bf 2 kids..
Iv been hiding in my room recently..:/..I feel bad..but I cant help it..no mater how hard I try..:/
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Glad im not the only one was feelin this. Just felt really guilty because my bf is being such a great support and does everything possible to make me feel better. Just that I get annoyed easy and I dont like it. Hopefully these feelings will go away. Thinkin it may just be hormones and the fact that nothin is really happening with my pregnancy still.
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Same here and I'm 30 weeks..and especially my boy friends son gets on my nerves... and disobedient kids to..
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Its easybto be annoyed by kids when you dont have any. I was the same way before i had my daughter lol. Dont worry things will be so muh better once you see how fun it is raising kids. :)
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I've notice I'm starting to be hard on my 3 year old. And I feel bad about it. I know it has to do with these pregnancy moods. And she's also starting to act up more. My mom tells me because she feels the baby coming soon. And I hate when my mom tells me that I'm treating her pretty harsh. But she's just Really starting to. Act like a little baby. And i want her to grow out of that stage. She'll always be my baby, I just don't want her to act like one.
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I Posted SomethinG Similar To this Earlier About This ANd It IrritateS Me SO Much With My Childs Father And His Daughter Whenever He Comes Around She Behaves Spoilt Sometimes IM So Fed Up That I Just Close The  Room Door I Don't Know If It's BeCause Her Mother Is In The State But She Does Stuff Expecting To Ge T Away With It The Crying ALone AggravateS
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I should just say let the, way other ppls kids are be a lesson to you lol. Whining and spoiled bratty kids a result of parents who don't discipline, say no and stick by their answer and the other parent. My son is almost three and yes, it can be hard to say no to them but its better than raising a whining spoiled brat! :-) kids like that get on my nerves not pregnant lol but just remember dint blame them and get to upset with them it's their parents fault not theirs :-)
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9961264 tn?1410873329
@babylove8461, she is probably just getting jeaous knowing there i s a baby on the way that is going to take a lot of attention and she figures by her acting like a baby she will be able to get attention too:/ you just gotta tell her that its unacceptable and you will give her just as much attention if she acts like the big girl that she is. That is very common with children when there is a baby one the way! Good luck(:
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I Posted Something Earlier About This ANd It IrritateS Me SO Much With My Childs Father And His Daughter Whenever He Comes Around She Behaves Spoilt Sometimes IM So Fed Up That I Just Close The  Room Door I Don't Know If It's Beside
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10380106 tn?1410962725
Definitely the pregnancy hormones @monababy! Lol I don't want to be bothered with my 5yr old who is usually the only person i want be around. Everyday i feel my bp boiling from being anmoyed by him & I'm only 29weeks.
Dont feel bad, just try expressing yourself to your bf & remember it wont be long before your back to normal! ☺
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ive ben feeling the same way and lately my daughter has ben talking in baby talk and im not sure why when she says everything perfectly fine its ben driving me nuts
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9961264 tn?1410873329
I understand. I have a niece(3) and nephew(2), i get so annoyed with them and I cant help it. My niece is spoiled so when i tell her no she starts crying and it makes me more mad than anything. She expects me to change my answer cause she got upset. The whining is... ugh. I totally understand where you are coming from.. I wish i had advice other than to go hide cause that's what i try to do.. You just gotta try to ignore it.. :/
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7969425 tn?1481053229
Ur not the only one.. I stay in my room for the same reason. I think its just the pregnancy hormones. Everything and everyone annoys me.
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