fiance quitting cigarettes

[ashleypaige06]

So my fiance is finally quitting, for many reasons brought up by me, and I know its hard for him and all. But its so overwhelming for me because he only takes his attitude out on me and its pretty constant. Im just getting to the point where I can only take so much of it before his attitude rubs off on me. Im trying to understand, but nothing I do makes his attitude any better n im sick of having it all dumped on me! Im 15&5 and im hormonal enough without this. Anyone else relate?

[MommyPaws]

your pregnant, he can't stress you out like that

[MommyPaws]

you need him to get patches...that would really really help,...

[ashleypaige06]

He isnt using a patch. Ive suggested it but then "im a know-it-all". Weve been fighting all day today, about just about whatever he can think of. He doesnt get how hard this stress is on my body. Hes making me feel so horrible about myself.

[MommyPaws]

yeah i understand you :) and yes of course he shouldn't take it out on you... and if he takes a patch he shouldn't be as grumpy..unless he is using one already and it doesn't help, then i idk :)

[ashleypaige06]

I havent smoked before, but I think what frustrates me the most is he wants ti hang out with his friends constantly, and is completely fine with them. He only takes his bad mood out on me. Im not asking for him to be grouchy with them. I just think if he can control his attitude with them, why cant he control it with me? Its just very frustrating

[MommyPaws]

i know what he feels like... have you smoked before? i you have then you'll understand what he feels like :) it's horrible! anytime i ran out of ciggaretes and can't get them till next day, i turn into a monster :P i'm cranky, i snap a lot, and very moody... and same with my fiance when he doesn't have cigarettes for a day... is he using patches? my boyfriend used them when he tried to quit (failed) he didn't smoke for about 3-4 weeks using those patches (just one odd cigarrete once in a while, which doesn't count)

patches should help your boyfriend...cause once the nicotine goes into your body, your not going too be snappy :)