filed for divorce today

[ftmAmanda]

title says it all. i can not do it anymore. nothing has changed from my week being gone. in fact. probably got worse. all he cares is about him self not me not his unborn children just selfish old him. everything  is constantly my fault. i AM the blame. i chose for him to treat me this way he says. the minute he doesn't get his way it's hell. i AM truly sorry for my children that their the ones suffering with a broken home. but i just can't do it. i would probably be treated better If i had a Pimp figure of speech. i really do not want him around my children when they are born. he has done nothing but make my whole pregnancy hell. he didn't even help pick out crib and etc. nor attend a doctor apt. hell what was i expecting. ***** that i fell for a ******* of a father. and now gotta do this alone. i will never forgive my self.

[gbugsmommy]

so sorry, everything will work itself out in the end.  you will find a man who cares for you so much that he will treat those babies like his own.  and your soon-to-be-ex is missing out on a whole heck of a lot.  my thoughts and prayers are with you!

[SunWorshiper_26]

I'm so sorry :(

[avaortega407]

thats what makes you strong despite how it makes you feel you are being strong to make the best choice for your kids

[ftmAmanda]

i wouldn't say i AM strong i AM pretty broken hearted right now. pretty lost. extremely confused. and can not stop thinking. but at the end of the day it is no longer about me. it is about my children. i just can't take the verbal abuse. And all the stress and pain. x

[vacuumprincess]

speaking first hand....  It was a LOT easier without the deadbeat dad than with him.  I tried it both ways.  Once I was actually free life was SOOOOO much better.

Best wishes to you.  You CAN do this.

[avaortega407]

some men will never change im glad your a strong/smart woman to know when to leave and be strong enough to do it

[ftmAmanda]

when i AM in labor it's way to late for him to show his dumb sh!t for brains up. i don't want him there. all he did was help conceive my miracles. other than that he is just takin up space. If he cared he would of changed. obviously he doesn't and I AM done being stupid and puttin up with it

[avaortega407]

no you dont have to but if he cares at all about you or the babies im sure it would mean alot to him if he would be apart of that

[ftmAmanda]

thanks ladies. hopefully some day the babies will understand. do i really need to inform him when i Go into labor. i really do not want too. i just wanna SCREAM.

[ftmAmanda]

thanks ladies. hopefully some day the babies will understand. do i really need to inform him when i Go into labor. i really do not want too. i just wanna SCREAM.

[avaortega407]

I don't believe children need there father and really dont need him if hes a jerk i hope every thing works out great for you be strong thats all you can be for your children right now things will work out for the best im sure

[beachbunn1986]

im not sure what to say other than im sorry your going through this  instead of enjoying your pregnancy, i wouldnt be so hard on yourself  i came from a broken home and im ok . to me it seems like your doing what is best for your children by leaving, they may not understand and be upset but when there older they will see that there mother had there best interest at heart . xxxxx

[ketona31479]

I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles, I hope everything will work out for you. My husband was at every appointment i had when i was pregnant with our daughter. One time my Doc pulled me out by ourself and ask if he was being controlling, and wouldnt let me out of his sight lol It was so funny!

Anyway I hope that made you laugh at little. From what youve decribed your better off without him. If i was in your pistion I probably wouldve knocked him flat on his a$$ for saying I chose for him to treat me this way...I also hope you have support from family and friends...Best of Luck.