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high sex drive & fiance isn't feeling it EVER
Im 13.5weeks... my sex drove had been steadily increasing, and my fiance doesn't seem to want a thing to do with me... I'm overly insecure and he knows it.. I'm only 11 lbs away from what i weighed full term with my first child... i constantly feel fat and ugly, he recently proposed... but his lack of interest scares me... we have sex maybe once a week and i have to ask for it, seduce him and most of the time wear sexy undies... & when we do do it, moist of the time recently I'm on top and to most of the work...
i hate feeling like the only man i couldn't think of bring with has lost all interest in me. What can i do to get his attention back on me?
i hate feeling like the only man i couldn't think of bring with has lost all interest in me. What can i do to get his attention back on me?
This is my 4th baby and all pregnancys are diferent you always feel that ur fat. But one thing I bn puting in my head is that even if you are pregnant u can always make your sealf look prety and sexy by doing your hair, nails, and not use all that ugly pregnancy cloths lol.. It just makes u look older lol.. And about d wight I have only gain like 4 pounds in 34 wks. My doctor say that we dond have to gain weight like people say or think. That as long as ur eating healty and not fot 2.. Just more often and small portions ull be fine. And actually better. And I feel good with my sealf. Never care about what others say or think about u.. Try to make your sealf feel good..
It kind of hapend to me about him not wanting to have sex. First doctors meke us stop for a risk till I was like 16 weeks but I find out I was pregnant at 9 wks.. Than I guess all that telling him we cant do it got on his head bad.. Some guys are very paranoid n wont react ride away.. I seit down with him and talk and ask him what the problem was and he wasnt shure guys are wierd but everything went back to normal just keep in mind that is not u is them..
My husband is the opposite. All he wants is to have sex and I'm not feeling it at all. I'm 7w1d and i have absolutely 0 sex drive I hope it changes he's starting to get angry.
He just can't get in.the mood I have talked to him simple the baby bump puts him of haha said it's to weired having a child between us.
Have any of you tried talking to your partners?? Actually finding out what exactly issue is. Some guys are scared of hurting the baby. If it is coz of your weight I don't know if I would stay with someone who thought like that.
Me too!!! :( I want it all the time and its been like a month and makes me feel bad
Mine is the exact same im 25 weeks and quite big so I reckon it's the bump the puts him of or the thought of hurting the baby also sometimes baby will kick him which is a complete turn of I feel your pain because my hormones are going crazy and nothing I do gets him in the mood
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