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For a csection how many ppl r aloud in the room??. I only want my fiance with me n my mother keeps pushing for her to b there... n she always says f they dnt let her she will raise hell about it... I dnt need that kind f drama... n Im to scared to tell her noo... I just want me n him coz its a special moment for the both f us n she will make it all bout her...
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they won't let her in.only one person can go...its a major surgery after all.seems pretty childish of your mom to act that way.
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Only one.   Thats if u are awake.   If they put u to sleep they usually wont let anyone be there.
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While ur waiting on the csection u can pull ur nurse to the side and let her know in private who u want to be in the room this way the nurse is the bad guy and not u when they tell ur mothee lr no
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1275969 tn?1540644784
As the others have said only one your mum should understand that you want your fiance there with you. She's acting a bit childish just tell her that you want your fiance.
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1752977 tn?1418221796
When I had my c section they only allowed my fiance. My Mom got to see our little guy right after and saw me in recovery
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Good... n I know it upsets me how she acts... my fiance has more right then her coz after all he is the father... but my mom doesn't see it that way...
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Your mom can be with you right up to the time they wheel you to the surgery area..I. surgery only your fiance can be there...with my first, I had my whole family with me right up until I was taken in and the nurses only let my hubby go into surgery..then your fam can see you right after you  get out  of recovery!! I've had 3 c-sections and going on #4 in July and my first was the only time my whole fam was there the whole time!! It will be hours b4 they can see you  once your out of recovery..now my fam just plans on showing up well after ill be ready to see them..;-) best wishes hun..
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1714215 tn?1334713869
I just had a csection with my daughter on Christmas Eve and only 1 person is allowed back there with you. My mom was going to be in the room but my birth ended in a section so she was one of the first people besides my bf to see Aubrey.
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1794093 tn?1357930759
I agree, im sure its only one person in the room... there isnt a ton of room for anymore ppl as the room fills up pretty quick with staff... im not even sure if they would allow her to be in recovery even...she may have to wait till you get up to postpartum but youll have to ask to make sure...
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1839656 tn?1329183801
I've had 2 c-sections and my mom and husband have been allowed in the room both times. I live in Texas and they allow 2 for a c-section and 3 for vaginal birth. But every hospital is different.
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1935407 tn?1339234114
I just done my still birth to Aidan last Sunday only Aidan's daddy allowed that also after I being prepare only they asking him to join. You need to make sure your fiance its brave enough and blood friendly to might on and off see the process bcos according to my husband he can see how they cut me.. how they took my baby out and this that... you for sure don't want put yourself and baby in situation where the nurse need to help your passed out fiance instead of you right... just an advised... if half body you will feel no pain but still can sense the pulling tackling below your breast.. for me is kinda scary...!!! Half way I ask to put me to some kind of blur blur anesthesia so I didn't feel so much anymore yet still can talk to hubby and see my little poor Aidan... good luck dear and Congrats...
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1794093 tn?1357930759
that is really interesting, ihave never heard of 2 ppl before, i guess it depends on the hospital
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1901977 tn?1333991726
I think if my mom were acting that childish, I'd tell the nurse to tell her they only allow one person anyways. Last thing I need when giving birth to my baby is to deal with another big baby...jeez, luckily my mom would never do this. This day is about you, so do what makes you comfortable, and don't worry about anybody else. It's not like you're barring her from the opportunity of seeing her grandchild, she can see him as soon as the labor is done.
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when i had my csections...they only let 1 person in the room...and i have had 4 of them..
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