feeling so ugly

[sarah428]

Does anyone else feel disgusting and not sexy at all while pregnant? I am only 10 weeks, but I feel like since I got pregnant my husband has lost interest in me. For a couple weeks I was constantly nauseous, so I wasn't in the mood. But now that I feel better I'm back to normal. I found some pictures on his computer, but when I try to talk to him about it and tell him that it makes me feel like crap when he looks at them we just get in a fight. I know he does this when he works out of town, but he has been home lately and that is what hurts. I know I am not attractive, but he used to still tell me I was pretty. Has anyone else had this happened with their significant other? Does it get better?

[sarah428]

Thank you ladies. I hope I feel better soon. He is in another country right now and I always feel like sh*t when he is out of town. I'm having terrible dreams where I wake up crying. My sisters wedding is in a couple days so maybe since I get to get all dressed up it will help.

[staceyndan]

All I can say is..... men are men majority of men look at pics ect it's just the way they were built its not a reflection on their partners or how they view them more so just look. As for feeling blah and sexy I felt that way for ages I'm 23 weeks n just starting to feel more attractive even if I can't see my toes. May I make a suggestion which helped me a lot. Get your hair nails done have a massage n maybe retail therapy then one night get dressed up and go out on a date with your partner. It really helps. I spent a whole day on me next day felt great n decided to surprise my partner with some really sexy lingerie and dinner it was great to reconnect as a couple and also with my self

[shellie409]

Hi :) im also 10 wks + 3 days i had an opposite reaction happen to me about 2 weeks ago some days i feel very nauseous so i dont feel sexy but one day i was feeling better and decided to wear my cute bra and matching underwear while i still can :p i kinda told my fiancée what i had on underneath my cut offs and t shirt thinking hed think about it for the day and id feel sexy about it well he was like you're wearing a thong? Why you're pregnant? :/ which was weird because he usually doesnt keep his hands off now that we're expecting pregnant women can be the sexiest women in the world one day soon you'll get a day where you feel great so be a bad girl and splurge a little on a new little something something to wear and if anything you'll feel sexy for yourself and maybe hell think it will be too :)

[Britt93]

Im going through the same thing. I feel fat ugly unattractive like my bf does not get aroused super easy like he used to, we used to be sexually active almost daily now it has been days. its hard but your not alone