for the sake of posting

[hayleyvaughan]

Just to correct the minds of all the ignorant people who tried to make me out to be a bad mom because I asked if smoking herbal molasses while pregnant was safe...shisha although some does have tobacco this particular kind my friend had was not. It was basically honey. And although I do understand the point some mothers made about smoking anything in general couldn't be good I dont understand how a couple of the moms made me out to be a bad mom because I couldn't "wait to smoke for 9 months". Its not like I was asking if it was okay to smoke cigarettes.  And to be honest had no intention of smoking the hookah because the smell alone was making me sick. I was just curious. Thanks for reading mu hormonal rant :)

[addy42011]

Everyone has their own opinion I understand that...but some girls on here come off soo rude! I recently posted something and it got blown out of proportion to the point girls were making posts about me on here and insulting me! Dont let it get to you...they dont know you and some people are just very judgemental if someone has something mean to say just dont even respond, nobody is perfect and im sure you are/will be a great mommy!

[zeniamei]

It's great you found out though. Some people assume a lot of things aren't safe without doing research or asking the doctor. It was just a question after all, on an app to ask questions lol.

[bella3101]

Brave question on this forum. There are tons of people on here who answer without judgement and only want to help BUT it also seems to be a place for women to attack others which is sad. I have no idea of an answer to your question but I do know asking aqquestion doesn't make u a bad mother just a concerned one trying to figure out the confusing world of pregnancy... asking questions is what stops you being ignorant so dont worry about others comments that dont help and keep your head held high.

[teregarcalva]

Just ignore the comments you don't like and don't let it get to you. None of these women know you at all so just brush off what they said and ignore it. Drama feeds off of attention and the more you react the more they'll attack.

[hayleyvaughan]

Sorry I meant :)

[hayleyvaughan]

Yeah. I know a d I was perfectly fine with everyone's opinion but I was not okay with women who decided to post exactly "you cant wait 9months, do it for your kid" and other ignorant similar comments.  Their comments did not answer my question and there fore should not have been posted. And yes I get what everyone was ssaying ab out no smoke of any kind would be good, rather it was from tobacco or not. So aside fro. Getting passed if from the ignorant comments I did find some of these women quit helpful :(

[teregarcalva]

Aww man /:
That must not have been fun. Asking questions like that on here is risky though because your gonna get every side of an opinion and most don't mean harm and don't realize the way it comes off when you read it. Some women are super careful when it comes to their babies (not saying you aren't) and find it outrageous that someone would even ask. I have been wanting to go to a hookah bar for a while now but I know no type if smoke is good for my baby since it messes with their oxygen or something like that so I wouldn't risk it. People should be able to ask questions and not get bashed on but it happens anyways so just be careful with what you ask because dealing with all that is a headache.