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4122185 tn?1358446749

Rude comments.. why even go there?

So i saw my father today & he said 'pam you are looking really hefty' and i was like excuse you?? Did you seriously just say that?? I don't know why people feel the need to make rude comments like that!! Yeah i put on 35 pounds and i feel gross enough about it alright!! I couldn't believe he said that to me.. maybe i am just taking it too personally..
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Next time just be like thank you that's what pregnancy does to you.. or be like just shows that the babys growing just shake it off lol my bf called me a fattie a while ago im 34 weeks now and I started crying and freaked out and he felt so bad and said I didnt mean it like that just stay positive :)
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3185867 tn?1348434443
I wuld feel really crappy if my dad said that to me :(. There the one man thats suppposed to make u feel better about ur self!!
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My brother and sister in law  would always tell me omg I cant believe u havent blown up ur huge! And I had only gained 17lbs thru my pregnancy! Ppl always say rude things trying to be funny! Just hangg in there :-)
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