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I'm so done with him

I posted a while ago about me and my boyfriend and we are distant now . I talked about him moving an hour away and how he has a past if cheating ... Well he moved with his cousin and his cousins wife on Saturday .. Saturday night I found out he was at a night club until 230 ... Sunday Monday and today he has barely even talked to me and has been hanging up on me non stop . I just found a photo he posted on Instagram (he blocked me) of him and two girls at the night club they were body painting and the girls were topless .. And then I find out that he was trying to get a ride home from those two girls that night .. I'm so hurt . I don't even know what to do .. He is just brushing it off like its nothing
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Yeah I deleted his number and everything else from my phone . I'm shocked because he was really changing he moved away from his family and dropped everything to be here with me and now he has a promotion and moved and was going to start  looking for a house for us and then now this .. It's insane . I can't put up with it again .
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5550067 tn?1375149180
I know that's hard.. I had a problem with my bf, him being a musician, always at the club drinking and spending money knowing we're supposed to be saving. I broke up with him and told him I didn't need someone like that.. I was dead serious too, but he realized his mistake so he's on his best behavior now, lol he wants be baby to have the best father.. But my point is, it's hard alone but sometimes it's better to raise a baby alone if guys are not gonna be responsible.. Put an end to it and stop trying to get on contact with him, obviously he's too busy so give it time.. You'll be better off alone since he's not helping anyway.. Let it be a motivation :) Good luck!!
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^^^ what kdq said
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5426152 tn?1382129604
KDQ
Dump his *** and take him to court for child support. If he treats you like this while you are pregnant he is not going to change. He sounds like a major jerk and you don't need that crap right now.
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This dude sounds like a complete ****. **** him. If he's gonna do that to you and his child then he isn't a man
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5554398 tn?1373571843
& ur pregnant with his child & hes suppose to be ur boyfriend?! That's insane!
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We got into a fight so he blocked me :/ and then shortly after deleted me off facebook
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5554398 tn?1373571843
He's your bf and has blocked you on instagram?! There is something seriously wrong with that. Your best bet is to cut your loses and move on. Sure its easier said then done but its going to be best in the long run!
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