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When I go over my boyfriend house on weekends he always want to have sex Friday night, Saturday night and Sunday before I leave. I don't be on the mood at all for some reason I just rather sleep and eat rather than have sex. When I tell him no he gets mad talk crazy, threaten me and say he gone **** another girl and like literally be mad at me. I'm so emotional and every time it happen I cry because he don't understand how I feel he feel like everything should go his way because he only sees me on weekends sometimes but he do come over on some weekdays and still ask for sex and I don't want to do it. I rather do it when I want to. How can I get him to understand I don't want to have sex every weekend or every time I st him I rather do it when I want?
If he's threatening to sleep with other girls, it should be no question. Who wants to share??
If my husband was saying he was gonna sleep with other girls cause I don't feel like it, I'd say "alright , enjoy single life." You dont need that. Yes, men have needs. But we as women (especially pregnant women) have our needs as well. Including the right to not have sex when we are simply not in the mood. Plain and simple.
If my husband was saying he was gonna sleep with other girls cause I don't feel like it, I'd say "alright , enjoy single life." You dont need that. Yes, men have needs. But we as women (especially pregnant women) have our needs as well. Including the right to not have sex when we are simply not in the mood. Plain and simple.
Okay thank you ladies I'll try to talk to him once again and if it don't work oh well
The solution is simple...
LEAVE HIS STUPID ***.
if he is like this now, when the baby comes he's just
going to be another dead beat baby daddy.
You AND your baby don't need that. At time like this, he needs to be supportive towards to you. With you. Not against you.
I know it's a hard pill to swallow but you're having a baby and need to do what is best by it and THIS GUY IS NOT IT.
If you won't leave him for yourself. Do it for your baby.
All the best sweetheart.
LEAVE HIS STUPID ***.
if he is like this now, when the baby comes he's just
going to be another dead beat baby daddy.
You AND your baby don't need that. At time like this, he needs to be supportive towards to you. With you. Not against you.
I know it's a hard pill to swallow but you're having a baby and need to do what is best by it and THIS GUY IS NOT IT.
If you won't leave him for yourself. Do it for your baby.
All the best sweetheart.
I know how u feel i have gone thru the same things. This pregnancy (39 weeks) ive never NOT had sex because I wasnt feeling like it. Even if i wasnt really in the mood, my boyfriend will still try and i just lay there n let him do the work. Like we wont kiss or anything he just gets something from it and doesnt mind haha but i only do that as long as i do show him sometimes that i want to make love and make him feel wanted. But he has in the past gotten upset n thoight i was talking to someone else just wheb i would say no for the first ten mins. But he gets over it. Men r really stupid n silly sometimes. I think u need to make sure your bf loves u and his intentions are clear...because the way u made it seem like he only wants one thing. So maybe dont give it to him until he proves himself. And if things get better just suck it up one night and get frisky lol
I was like that to and at first my husband would get a little disappointed .. but eventually he respected it im 20 weeks and starting to feel beter about having sex and he is soo happy now but rhe days I dont want to he understands. .. if your man cant understand he does not love you ..you want a man who will be there in the good and bad and who will understand you
Is this really what you want the rest of your life? If your bahy is a girl, would u want her in this situation? Really?....
Thats crazy girl he should not be making you feel that way he needs to understand its not always about his needs. Personally not to be rude byt he sounds like an @$$hole. And you shouldnt have to put up with that especially if u are pregnant. Before I got pregnant I did likee to have sex alot lol but after I got pregnant 180 I rarely like to have sex anymore and my bf is completely understanding about it he might get a lil pissy but never acts like that. All I can say is I hope all goes well and good luck
He been there threw my pregnancy so far (24weeks). I be trying to talk to him about it but it always turn into an argument. Most of the time I do give it to him so he can shut up and leave me alone but it's like he never appreciate it. He says I'm changing and I'm not like how I use to be and I always use my pregnancy as my excuse but I don't I just don't be in the mood and its uncomfortable. And outs like lately he will call and be so quick to call back and never do he always hee feel asleep but I have a feeling he is cheating.He always at auntie house and it do sometimes be a lot of dudes and females over there but I never ask him or bring up him and another female because I know it's another argument waiting to happen and he gone be so quick to say I'm messing with another guy when he know I'm at home sleep..... sorry for writing so much I just have allot on my mind and need to vent
If he cant be there for u when ur having his baby leave. Yes sometimes u gotta suck it uo and pleasure him but not all the time and him threatening to cheat makes him a piece of **** who probably already is
Leave him. He just wants ***. Not you.
Uhmm if he threatens tp cheat.most likely he already does.. Men have needs and u defintly should fullfill them MOST the time.. Maybe your pregnant? But if your not id get out now i know my.man gets mad sometimes when i dont wanna have sex but it shouldnt be that big of a deal thats ridiculous and soooo needy. You need to tell him how it is!! Take.control
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