giving up . . . finally!!!

[distortedmind89]

After spending the last 6 nearly 7 Weeks of my pregnancy looking stuff up on line, I am actually going to stop! no one pregnancy is the same, it just leads you on to reading more devastating things which causes you stress and then you read even more into other things. Their are so many myths surrounding being pregnant, whilst some being fun, they are just myths. I just realised today that I have spent more time worrying about everything rather than enjoying the fact I am pregnant with two bundles of Joy and I am so lucky to be able to have this in my life! So for anyone else like me who is a first time mum stop reading **** on the internet and just concentrate on the positives. Plus I have found a lot more refuge in asking people on here about things as you do get real experience answers, and they do vary.but that's a good thing! So ladies enjoy your pregnancy and don't panic, if you have any concerns come here or speak to your doc/midwife as quite frankly the internet is a dangerous place for us already emotional woman. Positivity is the key ;)

[a_FIERCE_mommy]

I totally agree!! I became a Googler since I've been pregnant. Sometimes its reassuring to me cus I kno signs & symptoms to look for but otha times its just STRESS!

[distortedmind89]

Yeah I know how you feel I have had three Previous miscarriages so obv worried but I'm nearing the 12 week mark and seen my babies so realised I was putting myself under more stress. Just enjoy it Honey :)

[elychard]

Great advice. Im going to take it...
I've had two miscarriages and this pregnancy scares the **** out of me, and I'm only 5 weeks .

[distortedmind89]

Lmao that's brilliant, I pissed my partner off with it all and was just making myself miserable. Your midwife sounds brilliant though lol

[Lilseamonkey]

This made me smile. when I first got pregnant my nurse called to give me my hcg level and I misheard her. Long story short I freaked myself out over stuff on the internet all sag and called her after her lunch break crying. She yelled at me and said if she finds out I'm researching again she's gonna come over here and take my modem XD

[distortedmind89]

aw bless :) just concentrate on your child I'm sure if you focus on him/her??? That you will soon forget about the c section and prob notice you recover faster

[Mayranava]

I'm trying my best I really am July 3

[distortedmind89]

aw you should be able to enjoy your baby sweetie. I hate the internet sometimes such an easy place to find information but so easy to be sucked in. when did you have baba?

[Mayranava]

I agree with you :) we are on the same page I was so scared of having a c section ended up having one been searching online about recovery and its sad and stressful and I haven't enjoyeds my baby