It was just bad timing. My boyfriend and I were planning on moving out of our two story house and I kept feeling nausious and tired so I took an EPT. It was neg. So I went on, the next day me and my bf broke up and he went AWOL on me so I ended up moving everything out myself. It was summer time and it took me a few days to get it all moved. Meanwhile I was having some crazy cramps (which is very abnormal) being depressed I ignored the signs and sat in my empty house and drank my troubles away. I was very stressed and started bleeding but it was not anywhere close to having my period (ive always been regular) Also it wasnt normal appearance wise. It was thick dark and very clumpy. that was when I knew what was happening. I cried FOREVER it seems like.
Yes you should have told him so he can keep a close eye on you and your baby this time. I had 2 miscarages I told my dr and he had me doing blood twice a week to see my levels and I was on bed rest for like 3 months just to be safe. I'm now 26w6d pregnant with a girl:) you should tell him your next visit.
Well now I don see the point if your pregnancy is moving along smoothly. How did you miscarry if you dont mind me asking?
Wouldnt they look at me weird if I told them now?
Yes. You should always be very honest with your dr about your history. They wouldve wanted to monitor you closer to make sure things were moving along smoothly. I have had 2 mc's and I couldnt imagine not having them check things out early. I understand you not wanting to talk about it. It hurts but it wouldve been for the best. Good luck to you.