guilt dream.

[munch2369]

Soo before i was with my bf i was seeing someone else and i broke up with him for my bf. Then my bf and i broke up and i wasnt sure if i still had feelings for the other guy and we ended up sleeping together, but we were interupted and only got a minute into it and nothing ever happened again and i figured out i had no feelings for him and my bf and i got back together. Then i found out i was pregnant. This is NOT a who is the daddy post. Im almost completely positive its my bf. I just feel guilty all the time and i had a dream the other night that the other guy told my bf. At the time i was doubting who was the dad and i told him and he said he wanted nothing to do with it so i never told my bf. I think it would be a bad idea to tell him now i know he would leave me and never ever forgive me, i know how he is. But the guilt bothers me so much sometimes. Im due in less than a month and my bf will get a paternity test and like i said im sure it will be his but i just feel bad sometimes. But it would just do more damage to tell him, especially after this long, rightt??????

[lovingmy32014]

If you an your bf were broke up that wasn't cheating

[jess-ann5]

Cool! I am glad ya'll worked things out! :)

[munch2369]

Ya i agree. That was before the baby. We live together now.

[jess-ann5]

Ooh ok I undestand. Sorry I was guess I read it wrong about the paternity testing.

Well I hope you do what makes you feel best! But word of advice, if this guy is special enough to continue your relationship, I suggest not doing the whole "on and off again" thing. Sometimes our feelings can get out of hand, we say things we don't mean, even do things that we're not proud of.. But if you really care about him, tell him you want to change you two's relationship. It will create a stronger bond between the two of you. Its being able to depend on a partner that you know will never walk out that door. It's intense and exhilarating to feel that connection and I only hope that you can feel that too!!

My policy is if you walk out of that door and leave me or vice versa, better make sure there is no intention of continuing the relationship. No playing games. Someone always loses!

[munch2369]

He never asked for a paternity test tho. Both my brothers doubt if their kids are theirs and i told him he will get one because i dont ever want him to doubt that his baby is his.

[munch2369]

Thanks. It just made me feel,horrible cuz i stopped considering us broken up when we broke up,cuz we used to break,up like every week for a day or 2 and get back,together and i would be really hurt if it was the other way around but maybe its just better that the past is the past...

[jess-ann5]

Well I always believe honesty is the best policy but it was outside of your current relationship so technically it's not his business. I suggest you do what will cause the least amount of stress. If he already wants a paternity test then he obviously thinks there a chance that it isn't his anyways. If he already feels that way then it might be a little easier for you talk to him. Of course, I don't know him or how he reacts to things of such instense nature but maybe coming clean will help you feel a weight lifted off your shoulders!

[Lilsis510]

I feel where you come from✌️✌️✌️

[joceeykittykitty]

I agree with the above post. And like you said the baby is his so there's no harm in not telling him.

[BradleaMarie]

If you guys weren't together when you and your ex had sex then there's No reason to feel guilty.