I feel bad...but

[happy_glow]

my babys dad and I had a healthy active sex life. i'm 20 +5, there are tines where all I want to do is jump his bones, but he won't want to! Lol. But then there are times when he wants to, and he tries so hard to get me in the mood, but doesn't work. I feel bad because its only been like that since the pregnancy. You guys have any advice on trying to get on the same page with my significant other?

[happy_glow]

Lol its ok:) my bd is the saaame! Not that I starve myself, but I get what you mean. And thanks everyone for sharing your stories! I guess fake it till you get into it is the thing to do. :D

[nece062013]

Lol he got mad at me one night cuz i was at the hospital with my mom making sure she was alright and didn't eat for 9 hours. I told him that the baby will get whatever it needs from me. I'll suffer long before the baby will. But he wont listen and he's always right blah blah blah lol sorry @happy_glow for the change of topic!

[hayang]

lol. sometimes it's like ridiculous though!! cuz I'm 99.99% sure I didn't conceive her on my own. its like I'm carrying baby, the least you can do is be patient with the things I can't control. geeeeez haha this post turned into a "complain about your bd post"

[nece062013]

My fiancé gets frustrated with me with a lot of pregnancy related thing. I just let him throw his hissy fit and when he's done I'll ask him if he's done being a total butt licker lol

[hayang]

we have sex pretty much every day. the last time we had sex though I started cramping nd stopped him like three times to readjust nd he got frustrated nd just gave up. I was like really? you're gonna get frustrated with me cuz I'm pregnant nd cramping? he pissed me off lol

[nece062013]

I'm the same way! Before pregnancy, we were like bunnies! Haha now i have to kinda fake it or act like i want it cuz he's always horny and I'll wait till he cant hold back anymore and I'll give in. Sometimes it wont work cuz I'll start cramping or something but most times it works. I never want it so I'm never the one to start but i feel bad for him so i suck it up lol

[hayang]

even if I'm not in the mood, I'll still play the part. once hubby gets going, then I'll get into too. but if I only had sex with him when I was in the mood, it'd be scarce lol. but sex is so good I know I'll get in the mood once he starts lol. it's like start without me, I'll catch up haha

[butterfly2330]

Oh man I am so in the same boat as you. I try to think about sex with my boyfriend all day long so when he eventually comes onto me I've already been thinking about it, therefore, going to make me a wee bit hornier. Some nights I just suck it up when he wants to do it. It's not really a win win its more of a lose lose situation.