I can't even believe he did that!!

[baby2_on_the_way]

Today was the big day we were supposed to find out if we were having a boy or girl and my bf (soon to be ex if it doesn't stop) ruined it!! I invited my mom and sister to come and he knew this, but ten minutes before leaving he picked a fight and told me to call them and tell them not to come. This was mean cause they took off school and work to be there for us and he changed his mind last minute, just to start a fight. I told him I wasn't going to call them because I wanted them there, and until this point he was fine with it. he ended up over reacting and trying to make me choose between him and family, and when I told him I choose both he "broke up" with me and told me I an the biggest mistake of his life right in front of my daughter, so I grabbed her and left with out him. I shouldn't have left, but I couldn't take the mean words and childish behavior any longer and wasn't about to let him ruin this day. I did ask right after leaving that he get in his car and meet me there and that we could ask my family to wait in the waiting room because they would just be happy to know first:-)  he refused and stayed home. When I called to make up and tell him the gender, he freaked and broke up with me again. I'm not going home tonight because he needs to learn a lesson, I just hate that he ruined it for me... But its a boy and i'm happy, just wish I could share the happiness with my man because he is my other half and I really do love him I just hate his games. Ugh

[maybaby19]

My husband picks a fight at every appointment...never fails. I just figured out his problem this past appointment and it reminds him of all hes missed and is missing with his daughter...but sounds like your man was just being childish lol guys tend to do that unfortunately

[baby2_on_the_way]

Thanks:-)

[ladii_keya]

Hopefully he calls & says sorry .. Congrats on yur boy ! & good luck

[baby2_on_the_way]

He better be lol! He would be screwed with out me so he isn't thinking very logical. I just want him to hurry up and stop it so I can celebrate with him

[ladii_keya]

Good make em wait because he should have been there .. Guys suck lol .. Maybe one of these days he will be just as excited as yu or even more :)

[baby2_on_the_way]

Thanks:-)  I just couldn't believe it, I thought he was equally add excited as me and obviously I was wrong. I'm with holding pics until he apologizes

[ladii_keya]

My bf did the same thing ! We were on our way there & he claimed his mom was annoying him so he demanded we turn around & take him home .. I sent him the ultrasound pic afterwards tho & he apologized because she looked exactly like him in the 4d pic .. Guys are just as stressed & nervous about our pregnancy as we are .. Don't let it get to yu too much hun