having sex issues

[Trecian]

I'm 6 weeks pregnant and my spouse n I are already arguing about sex...its our second child, the first child died a day after he was born 5 months ago. I had a cesarean section bcaz the baby was breeched. Well now am scared bcaz am spotting n am not sure if am healthy enough to carry this baby. Is having sex now a threat to me or my baby?

[GigiBella]

So sorry for your loss.  You shouldn't have sex until you check w doctor and stop bleeding. good luck

[Trecian]

Thats wat teaes me apart the most....having to argue with my spouse over SEX. We argue alot these days for the simpliest of things.

[caligirl2657]

That's heart breaking. I'm so sorry. I wouldn't have sex I would take it easy!

[Trecian]

@jenn98588...the docs at the hospital said it was due to lack of oxygen. I was in the hospital 3 weeks before my due date bcaz I was in false labor they say n I went home after a week. The following day my spouse n my sis took me back to the hospital bcaz I was in pain, I had baby 1 04 the next day. Thats when the dr told me my baby was brain damaged due to lack of oxygen at birth.

[Jen9588]

If u dont mind me asking what did ur baby die from

[Trecian]

I'm due for an ultrasound tomorrow...on my first visit I asked my dr which is a surgeon if I was considered a high risk patient n he told me no. He said after the ultrasound it will determine how serious my case is. Am I healed properly from my previous cesarean section to be pregnant now?

[babyberry000]

Have you been to the dr? Did they tell you if you were high risk or not

[mikkayla]

Spotting is very normal at 6 weeks. I was spotting till i was 8 weeks. My dr told me it was the implantation. I didnt have sex till it was over just because it freaked me out and i didnt wanna think something bad happened if blood ended up being on one of us.