he doesnt put any effort into sex.

[munch2369]

And it really pisses me off. Its like he doesnt want it. At first he said i didnt have sex with him enough and now that i do its like he expects that i do all the work. He asks me to suck his d*** and then doesnt return the favor. And he doesnt last long, but im not gonna tell him that it would just **** him off. So after sex im just mad and i want to go get myself off so i dont even sleep in bed with him. It just makes me sooooo mad. Plus i just got my sex drive back and im soo horny all the time and i want it all the time. I even try stuff like putting his hand on my crotch and he just lets it sit there and watches tv. Wtf.

[LutiousLefty]

Have you tried just talking to him to find out about his seemingly lack of interest?  I know me and my husband go through times were I'm not interested and then I can't seem to get enough and the same goes for him.

[Mel_Singh]

Oh heck! I feel sorry for u

[bubbles_baby]

Get a vibrator like seriously. I'm single and Ive had a very high sex drive since I been pregnant. My vibrator is my baby.

[Val_Madeline]

Aw I'm so jealous of you ladies lol
I just had my daughter last week on Wednesday and my bf and I are dying to have sex :(
I'm so frustrated with this bleeding! Can't wait until I get the OK from my doc!

[bellaNjr]

With my bf we are both the same. Sometimes I want it & he doesn't & when he wants it I don't . But the things is I always give it to him even if I don't feel like it but he doesn't do the same. What I love about him is that when we have sex he always touches me everywhere which I enjoy:) he doesn't just puts it in he always has to kiss & caress me. The problem with me right now is that It hurts so bad to the point I wanna cry & I enjoy it but at the same time his hurting me. Even if his gentle sex hurts Every time now that I'm pregnant.

[tonz_7]

I had the saaaame problem lol my man just couldnt keep up with me and my hormones...felt like I was raping him every night lol I didnt care tho I would just keep going til I came then would just go to sleep lol.all went back to normal after baby was born

[pinklie]

I wish I had u r see drives. I have 0 desire to have sex. And my husband literally begs for it. He tries so hard to turn me on and I feel so bad cus I simply have no mood eat so ever to have sex.

[rprlove]

Just cut him off and only worry about pleasing yourself, eventually he'll notice.

[munch2369]

He works 14 hr days and comes home covered in mud, i dont think anyone would let him in their house lookin like that. And he doesnt go anywhere after work without me, so he would have to be pretty tricky to be cheating.

[devloveschiyoko]

I have that same problem but he wasnt faithful hopefully thats not your issue

[munch2369]

What makes me mad more than anything is he does initiate sex.. like he doesnt touch me or rub my leg or be sexual at all to try to turn me on like he used to -_-

[Yoshii_93]

time to buy a toy if he not satisfying u. and use it in front of him so he knows he not doing it right maybe it might motivate him to b less selfish in bed

[HermosaDee]

Lol girl just take care of yourself when he can't finish the job. It can be very frustrating and men can be quite selfish sometimes. You should also try talking to him about it, let him know how you feel. Maybe he will be understanding & snap out of it. I got my sex drive back and I'm always horny too lol