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he intentionally got me sick

Baby daddys dad is vulgar and mean in general. He thinks its funny to snap my bra and make a comment about wanting to see me drunk and partying or watching my boobs bounce. TG day he was sick as a dog. Congested, coughing, vomiting, fever the works. He sat down next to me wiped his face and mouth and shoved them in my face. I pushed his hands away and said quit. He said I needed to learn when to speak up and say something was bothering me. He didnt quit for another 2-3min and I just KNEW I was gonna get sick.

Now sure enough I cant eat, im dizzy, nauseous, headache, my body temp is up and I have a slight cough..... needless to say im reeeeeally p.o.ed. he knows im pregnant too and when baby daddy said he was being stupid and could make me and baby really sick all his dad said was well she shouldve spoke up sooner aint my problem.
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6519447 tn?1391770769
This man is totally disrespecting you, your man and baby. He has no right to touch you. Its actually against the law to touch someone without consent. Who the hell does that?? Just reading this makes me sick. You need to stand up for yourself and especially the baby. If it was me I wouldn't think twice and I would leave. Your man is a ***** for not standing up for you and his child. My advice is leave and go somewhere safe, this man seems unstable. Think of your child.
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Yeah this was the last straw. I was in HS so I can ignore the annoying comments but THIS can be life threatening to my baby and that is a no-no. I wasnt even supposed to be able to get pregnant. Next time im just going to leave right the.
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5609044 tn?1383514943
Yeah sweetie I agree ... Even though he runs the company you need to speak up your pregnant for crying out loud .... And also I wouldn't want him around my child no telling what he's capable of !
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Oh hell no. If that was my husband he would have beat his *** lol sounds like a real immature *******
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lol. are you serious? OBVIOUSLY his an immature piece of CR@P (sorry for being rude) you don't disrespect a women that way. yes it is disrespect when you make her boob bounce and snap her bra. what you need to do is tell him to leave you alone and when he grows up he can come back and be a part of the babys life. do you really want someone like that to be around your baby? i hope you feel better but thats not a good place for you to be.
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Oh ge is. He and his dad have almost come to blows over it. But BDs family runs the company he works for and we need him to keep his job for now. He has his foot in the door at a security job but it wont start til closer to xmas so we bite our tongues til he can get out from under them.
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5609044 tn?1383514943
I really don't think that is an environment you need to be in. I'm mean really? Snapping your bra and saying inappropriate things like watching your boobs bounce .... Honestly I say you bounce right out of there and your baby daddy isn't angry about any of this ?
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