heart break

[married_mommyof2]

I jut need to vent...im 10w1day n i maried my bf of 4 years hes also the father on my 2yr Old. But ever since we found out i was pregnant hes just been so hurtful to me. Idk if its stress or what. Hes always talking bout how he wants to be with a virgin girl n how im a bad wife when in reality im awesome i cook i clean he has his clothes laid out for him wen hes done showering... i mean i do everything for this guy. I kniw we r young 21 but we got marries becuz we love eachother...but could this baby be pushing us away from eachother... i loce my husband nd it kills e to cry over this stuff...i just need someone to talk too...

[aida_morrell]

If everything between you and ur husband was fine before the pain then I dont see why he would think your lying. If he keeps acting the way he is then when ur not sore anymore he'd be lucky if even then you wanted to have sex with him. Even if he is stressed thats not a good enough excuse, your still having to look after the baby and housework and cook even though your probably more stressed than him while in pain.  Tell him he needs to grow up and see your point of view, if anything he should be trying to help you. X

[Faith_Sarai]

You sound like an awesome mom and wife. It could be stress that is causing him to be so insensitive, however that is no excuse for disrespectful comments. I would definitely try and have a talk with him about it. I had to beat it into my husband's head that I'm pregnant and things aren't as easy as they were. We home about it now tho. Because every time he was insensitive I was like I'm your pregnant wife in pain, uncomfortable, and any other symptoms. I think it's hard for them to relate sometimes

[married_mommyof2]

He thinks I'm lying that it hurts. . I'm always sore too i dnt sleep well n i still wake up at 3 or four n the mirnu.g to make his food for work n get the bby ready for daycare..its alit for me to do alone

[aida_morrell]

Me and my partner hardly ever have sex either as rits too painful for me, im sore constantly but if he told me he wanted to be with another girl I'd tell him to leave if thats all that is important to him. Does he not care that its too painful for you? Its not like u are going to be pregnant forever hes needs to grow up and stop being soo disrespectful xx

[married_mommyof2]

He said he want them becus we dont have sex alot any more but its painful for me too. Nd im busy i deal with a lil boy all day n still cook nd clean...ive asked him before he says its nun if my bizness...idk hes just so mean to me now nd idk wat to do

[aida_morrell]

Thats terrible that hes being soo mean to you, why does he want to be with a virgin girl? You should just ask him what his problem is. He should appreciate everything you do especially when you're pregnant, the last thing you need is to have him stressing you out x