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HOW LONG HAVE U BEEN TTC

I JUST THOUGHT I WOULD START A THREAD JUST TO VENT.

1)HAVE U BEEN TTC?
2)HOW LONG?
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS?
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP?
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE?
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES?
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION?


ME.
1YES
2.5 MONTHS
3.IDK
4)YES
5)NO
6)NO
7) WHEN I HAVE A CHANCE.NOT LAST MONTH THE PAIN WAS UNBEARABLE
)NO
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1. yes
2.8 months
3.idk
4.kind of.Its always at back of my mind.
5.yes have 1 daughter
6.IDK i think i could have had chemical pregancy last august.Tested positive twice then negative from then on
7.During ovulation i try to bed every 2nd day if not every day.

Sending you some baby dust its hard when your ttc and you cant understand why its not happening.Soon hopefullyn xx
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THANK U AND BABY DUST UR WAY AS WELL. ITS FUNNY HOW THEY SAY ONCE U HAVE THE FIRST CHILD THE OTHERS WILL FOLLOW. ALL THE BLESSINGS TO U SWEETIE. LET ME KNOW IF U EVER RECIEVE DAT MIRACLE.
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good luck and prayers everyday
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118884 tn?1270474779
ME.
1YES
2.4 MONTHS
3.was told might have pcos
4)not yet
5)yes mother of two boys hoping for a girl
6)NO
7) I don't know when I ovulated that is the question been cramping off and on since the 6th of May but hubby and I did bd about 6 times!
so I guess that would be considered a complication!
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Well I just want to encourage you by letting you know how things went for me. DH and I were TTC a baby for 1 year and 3 months before we finally got pregnant. I thought that something was wrong with one or the both of us. I was thinking of looking into fertility clinics until I realized if God wants me to have a baby then he will give me one and I stopped thinking about. Comes to find out a month or so later I was pregnant. Lots of prayers to you ladies!
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thanks dat do help. i have giving it to god. cause i just cant understand alone. i will just wait. im 23 and i have lots of time. but i feel these should be my best yrs at concieving. so its all up to the big guy GOD. but thank u and congrats on ur baby boy or girl?
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1)HAVE U BEEN TTC?
2)HOW LONG?
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS?
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP?
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE?
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES?
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION?


ME.
1)YES
2) 1 yr and 1 month
3) Diagnosed with thyroid cancer in 2007
4)YES and no... seeing  a RE and found out that i have a ovarian cyst too
5)NO
6)NO
7) may be 2  -3 times around around ovulation

Faith have u tried using Preseed... I use to have Pain during sex when i first started ttcing and my primary doctor suggested using lube and it helped... but since your ttcing it is better to use preseed instead of the other things like KY.

Baby dust to you...
Thanks,
Karen
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i never use any lubs at all. but whats preseed and where do i find it. sex is comfortable for me. when im having sex the lady down their is very read "moist" lol.tmi. but yeah tell me bout preseed, im sorry to hear ur situation. its sad but i thought maybe this blog would help ladies express themselves and problems.  but good luck and baby dust all over u and spouse.
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http://www.preseed.com/   but if your moist down there around penetration time then u dont need it.. you get preseed online or at some pharmacy.. there is something called pre conceive that you get in walmart( some states only) but i havent seen it NC.. i get my preseed at a pharmacy cause it is where i go to see my endocrinologist.

Pre-Seed® “Fertility-Friendly” Intimate Moisturizer, vaginal dryness relief shown in independent studies to not harm sperm..

Hope this helps...
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362249 tn?1441315018
1)HAVE U BEEN TTC? Yes
2)HOW LONG? 4+ yrs
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS? IDK but I think its O's fault
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP? I feel like it sometimes Im very worried it wont happen without medical intervention and im very scared i ll never have money for that
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE? I feel in my heart i was once but with no BFP no proof
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES? No
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION? My O just seems to vary so im not sure but i would say every other day around that time
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676912 tn?1332812551
1)Yes
2)2nd cycle off b/c
3)None so far, except not pregnant yet.
4)No I have faith that it will happen when it happens
5)Yes 11 month old (on June 2) son
6)Not that I'm aware of
7)Trying every other day from the end of AF, last month didn't go as planned...hopefully more BDing this month.

BABY DUST TO ALL!!!
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once again its another day i start ovulating on the 29. wish me luck im not in direct concentrating of getting pregnant put i will have sex. so i will see what  the outcome is i have given up on really trying in other words im going wit the flow.
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865924 tn?1240327536
1)HAVE U BEEN TTC? yes
2)HOW LONG?      this is my 5th month, 6th cycle
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS?
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP? No, It takes healthy couples up to one year.
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE? no.
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES? no
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION? When the fertility monitor hits peak we go every day until I see my temp shift showing O. Usually 4-5 days.
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hey.well gud luck keep the faith... and remember too all ladies. dont just have sex make love. a good sex drive helps.baby dust to  allllllll.
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676912 tn?1332812551
You make a very good point, not to just have sex and to make love. That is after all what we are doing, creating a child out of love. We have to remember that, and to relax and not stress. Like cmoretti said, it takes healthy couples up to a year. So stay positive and good luck to us all!!! BABY DUST!
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758877 tn?1382585762
1)HAVE U BEEN TTC? yes
2)HOW LONG? um for about four years
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS?  un explained infertility
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP?  no although sumtimes it just seems like a great idea
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE? yes
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES? 2
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION?  as soon as my monitor says GO FOR IT lol before we see a peak everyother day


i am doing an iui in the mo of june my first iui was cxled due to too many follies (was on an injection cycle) so we are hoping for our BFP    much luck to all youbug hugs *:O) erika
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505857 tn?1329681517
1)HAVE U BEEN TTC?
2)HOW LONG?
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS?
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP?
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE?
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES?
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION?

1) YES
2) 18months
3) None that i know of!!
4) On the verge of doing so!!
5) NO
6) NO
7) As much as i can but think i got my cycle mixed up with a 30 day when it should have been a 32 day
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283175 tn?1295537265
1, Yes
2, 8 years
3, Blocked right tube,Partners low morphology.
4, still trying
5, yes,1 child
6, 5mc, 1 eptopic
7, all the time.
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WELL we all are some what in the same boat.... no ships are sailing. but i wouldnt give up i would just go with the flow."tarajanes" im so sorry for situation. i know it probably feels worse to loose a child. but thank ur blessing that u can concieve. some women like myself cant even say they know what its like being preggers. but i do wish all ladies baby dust. and dont forget like smjmekg said we are making babies out of love...(K.I.T) keep in touch ladies
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525485 tn?1314361301
1)Yes, ttc #2
2)Only for 2 months......took us three years to get #1
3)DH has slow swimmers....but apparently that didnt stop us from having Sarah!
4)Nope...going with the flow....
5)Yes, Sarah was born almost 4 months ago, 2/3/09
6)Yes, 1
7)We normally try to have sex as much as possible around the fertile time!
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congrats on ur new queen. its funny how i tell everyone thid but. dr's always say oh after the first child bcareful, because you can become pregnant very eaisly. i dont find that truthful
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525485 tn?1314361301
i dont think thats truthful either....because DH and I have not used any form of BC since I had sarah and we have def had sex in my fertile periods...and nothing for me...so, I guess it all depends on the person.

With our luck..its going to take us another couple of years to conceive again!
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i think it would happen when you are so busy,that being pregnant is far from your mind. that usually happens. i have a friend who has had a son last yr. 4 months later she got pregnant again. baby due next month. the error in this situation she never wanted kids. and she feels like her life *****. she is a party person. i told her either keep ur legs close,or give them to me. i love them. people like her make me upset. we havent spoke in months. i cant be around her i just hope her unborn son,and her older son are doing great.but baby dust to all everyday
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621803 tn?1302888341
1)HAVE U BEEN TTC?  Yes
2)HOW LONG?  off BC 18 months, officially TTC 12 months
3)WHAT ARE UR COMPLICATIONS? Me-ovulatory disfunction (I almost laughed when i heard that one!), and DH has low morphology
4)HAVE YOU GIVEN UP? not quite yet..doing IUI soon
5)HAVE U BEEN PREGNANT BEFORE? no
6)ANY MISCARRIAGES? no
7)HOW OFTEN DO YOU HAVE SEX DURING OVULATION? 3-4 times usually

I havent' given up yet, but I have gotten to the point where I feel a lot of the time that this won't ever happen for me. And it doesn't help that 6 of my friends are currently pregnant!!!
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