help! 9 days to go. ending things with my husband

[kayannmaher]

When i got pregnant my husband and i were on very rocky terms. We had taken a break and I didn't find out until about 3 months that I was pregnant which made us want to work on things and try and save what we have. Well what has got me wanting to end things now is hes never home, working,  side jobs, and helping others come first. hes not into anything about this baby, no appointments with me, anything I buy he says we don't need and I show him all the outfits I got her and he doesn't even acknowledge it, it really bums me out.  So the other day was our 2 year anniversary of marriage and he had forgot which I was not all that mad about, but I didn't forget and texted him a sweet message in the morning while he was at work his response gave away that he forgot,  well he gets home and tells me had plans to help out our neighbor I asked if he could do it a different day but he went anyway then he got home a few hours later and had to go get gas in the gas can for our pressure washer,  got back and pressure washed part of our house and was so tired by the time he came inside he went to sleep didn't spend a second with me no flowers no card nothing. I'm so confused and sad,  I don't want to but I do.

[kayannmaher]

It seems like the best thing to do for myself,  it hurts though to think of my children I don't want a broken family but it's not healthy to be unhappy.

[isabela2]

I am in the same situation as you: ( my husband and I ended things and it hurts so much he barely left the house today and he has been so mean to me but I can't help not worrying about him although at the same time it hurts me because we have Done too much harm to one another!  :(