help me please

[francine99]

my last period was june 30, i am sexually active and do use condom and pull out method. in july 9 i had an on and off brown discharge till july 13. when i wipe i can see these brown disharge too. it is not foul smelling. thinking that i am about to get my period soon, and according to the calendar method as my safe period, we had unprotected sex on july 12, 16,17 and 24 and he withdrew all the time. my period is supposed to be due on july 17 but until now, aug 2, no period yet. i am worried. i am not yet ready to get pregnant.

[MrsEwart]

The pull out method does not work, it doesn't matter if he ejaculates inside of you or not, there's just as much sperm in precum (the clear fluid that comes out of their penis during sex and before ejaculation) if not more. It sounds to me like you're pregnant, take a pregnancy test and go to a doctor.

[Carly1306]

The 'pull out method' is not a reliable form of birth control and doesn't work. Pre-ejaculation which can and does cause pregnancy is released from the male without even knowing it. Brown spotting can be caused by pregnancy, but also other things such as bacteria infections or STD's. Best thing to do now is take pregnancy test with first morning urine, and take it from there.