My partner lives and works in LDN since end of last year and I see him only weekends nowdays. He drives 170 miles (just one way) just to come and see me. God! In those 2 days we argue at least abt 10 times and if I am honest I am the one who is arguing - not him. What I am trying to say is I am glad when he goes back to ldn - in a way. Not because I don't love him (I love him dearly and he is the best thing that happened in my life) but because somehow I just want to be left alone. lots of things are going to happen, which you might think are out of order during the next 9 month, so try and take it with a pinch of salt. Don't pay too much attention. It will stop pretty soon and things will get back to normal. You wait! When you both go for the first u/s and you see heartbeat etc. - it will change everything! she will be the happiest! Give it time ))
Please give her a little more time... i guess its just a hormons like what mummytobe saying.. i change a lot when i preggy Aidan Baby and my hubby its trying hard to be there even how annoying i am sometimes.. so don't give up easily... just think couples more month from now you both will become mommy and daddy and a sweet sweet angle and that's worth trying everything bro... best of luck...!!!
The downside is she hates going out....so the weekend getaway might be a train wreck lol...but Ty I hope things get better....I love her the same if not more just the companionship seems to be fading....sometimes I wonder if she secretly hates me and just keeps me around cause she scared to do this alone which I hope is my imagination but i wonder......I know its hard for her and i feel bad but its also hard to love someone so much and not know they feel the same ....like on Christmas I got her a lot of things and I got nothing not even a letter....I would have been happy with a quarter ring but i got nothing....its discouraging
Ahh honey! I think that gf's hormons are all over the place and not much she can do to control them. Believe me, the way she is right now is not her fault! I am pregnant as well and yes, give a really hard time to my partner (love him to bits but everything he seems to do these days is wrong)! Don't stress and my advice to you is: keep calm, just treat her well and give her the space. RIght now your are the closest person in the world to her and make sure that you tell her that. Why don't you just plan a weekend away, give her something to look forward to. Don't spend too much time indoors where it just the 2 of you. Just give it time... I am sure she loves you - she is probably just a bit scared. Having a baby is a massive step and responsibility. If you have only been together for 4 month I am not surprised why your gf might be worried. Explain to her that you will be behind her all the way. Make sure you keep your promise. Congratulations to both of you!