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Have to Have Hope!

I have had two miscarriages and this is my third pregnancy. For the longest time I couldn't be excited for this pregnancy because I was terrified of getting my hopes up again only to have my heart completely crushed. I will be exactly 13 weeks tomorrow and it gives me hope because Ive never made it this far in a pregnancy. I want to be a mom so bad! I pray for you little baby all the time. I can't wait to meet you!! I pray so hard that I get to meet you! I feel so bad for still having that doubt in my mind. Am I terrible for feeling like that?
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5002615 tn?1366014009
My prayers!
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My prayers as well. Stop worrying so much for starters. Enjoy this hun! What God has for you it is for you. Put him first and keep your faith!
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Thank you!!! <3
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5550067 tn?1375149180
Hope everything works out for you!! :)
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I can totally relate I had a still birth at 20 weeks last year and it broke my heart.... I was able to hold my little angel for a few minutes b4 he was taken ): now that I'm pregnant again at 1st I was always scared and having bad thoughts now I'm 28+2 and I pray night and day for my baby to come (: .... Pray a lot and ask god to bless your baby everyday that's the only thing we can do... I'm sure he will hear us and we'll have healthy strong babies <3
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5574172 tn?1376700381
Just take it easy Momma, & don't stress yourself don't let your mind wander we don't want you to stress out. Stay hopeful. Also sending up prayers for you & yours!
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5094917 tn?1366986485
I also had a still birth so I know exactly how you feel I made it a lot further and I know she is able to survive on her own but its still terrifying I'm now 28w6d and I think about it every night. But you have to try your hardest not to stress about it during this pregnancy because of course its not good for your baby. Which I do know its hard not to but you have to try. After losing my son its very difficult but I try my hardest not too. Good luck and congrats<3
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This is my third pregnancy as well I had two misscarroages in 2012 n had to have a dnc for the last one so im seeing a high risk doc all I can say is miracles happen I only made it to 9 weeks before I lost my last baby n they told me my chances of having a succesful pregnancy was slim but im now 34 weeks with a big healthy baby boy I wasnt excited till I passed 20weeks then started buying things like crazy so be hopeful but dont worry yourself to death ok you will be just fine
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Also did they do any testing to determone the cuase of previous misscarriages my they have determine is becuase I have a septum diving my uterus in half n if a baby attaches to this septum it wont get any nutrients which is what they were saying happened with my last two but other than that they never found anything chromologically or genetically wrong with me
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I also know how you feel I've had 2 miscarriages. I'm now 12w and this is the furtherest I've made it. I try to think positive but it really is hard to sometimes. I can't wait to get my next U/S next week to see that little heart flicker again. The best of luck to you.
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Thank you so much for all the support ladies! I feel better now!! Congrats to all of you as well!!
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