Men Vent!

[Kaylamomof3]

So I go upstairs to check my 2 year old and see if he was sleeping.  to my surprise my son had a bloody nose.  I called my bf up to check him out.  well my tired son started throwing a temper tantrum cause he didn't want to clean his face up.  well my bf knowing he can't get mad at him startedon me.  I sat on the floor with my son to cuddle him from crying amd my bf just walks away and shuts the door.  leaving me on the floor too fat to get up with a 30 pound child in my arms.  I didn't do anything wrong and hes so mad at me he refuses to talk to me.  I should be mad at him excet I'm in bed crying while he just sits downstairs and plays video games

[Kaylamomof3]

see mine is completely different any ultimatiums and he just laughs at me.  I'm happy he plays mayve once every couple weeks but that one day he does.  no one exists.  its just like most men don't care

[Steph_2]

Ok i feel your pain, black ops 2, ugh grr...... but i found the ultimate solution. I told my hubby if he plays for more than two hours on his day off i start taking away the lug nuts from the tires on the truck, of course i wouldn't do it but as he says im not myself and he cant predict whay i would actually do or wont do. He now sets a timer and i get help when i need it. He is learning dont mess with the pregnant woman! Lol

[Kaylamomof3]

Oh kids are dealt with in my end I just find it super pathetic that I worked so hard for the last 4 years of us being together.  leaving my maturnity leave early to go back and make money and when I make money all I hear is what did you spend it on and all it was was like a nice sushi lunch or something.  but he goes out and spends money on games or download content for the kids.  he knows I want to get married and he keeps saying on day but come on I see all my friends getting married 1 year into there relationship and I'm sitting here for 4 and work so hard to make him and the kids happy and I don't get anything.  kind of makes me feel loke I'm not worthy enough for respect

[Lilseamonkey]

Wtf? Savings account for xbox one. How about for baby? College fund for your other kids? And like you said, engagement ring and wedding. Bs :/

[babydue07182013]

Right they spend all that money on stuff and I get crap for wanting to buy something for myself. Like wtf

[Kaylamomof3]

lol I give up I just thru his pillow down the stairs and told him to get comfy.  my neighbour trusts us to she gave him the password cause our internet goes out alot lol  its "the company".  I know sad thing is my bf has a savings account for his new xbox one when it comes out.  but no savings account for a engagement ring.

[pitaer1]

Ughh i have the same problem nd my bf has been waiting for gta 5 nd have alread pr_order it already im 10w 5d pregnat and im always moody lol , i told him if he dont quit his game addiction im gunna be like the crazy girls on youtube who just get the ps3 and throw it down to the floor and smash it lmfao.

[Lilseamonkey]

sh!it girl wait til he goes to the bathroom and change the password to his account. Lol that's unbelievable. reasons like this that make me not understand why people don't protect their wifi. If I pay for it I sure as heck don't want randoms using it. Especially defiant baby daddies haha I'd be playing ninja if I were you take the cords hide the game change the password. Anything. ;)

[Kaylamomof3]

its really pathetic.  here we are working so hard to make them dads and we can't get any respect.  I should be sleeping because of getting only 2 hrs last night but while he's down there playing I'm waking my son up every hr to make sure its not a concussion with the nose bleed even though I'm pretty sure he just picked it to much.  lol I turned off the internet but he is now using our neighbours wifi.  so I wasn't to smart there.  

[Lilseamonkey]

Hahaha yeah it's horrible huh? All day he just sat in that chair playing that stupid game. Not looking for a job, barely looking away to eat (I cooked and served his meals) now it's the other way around. He got rid of it and now I'm a lazy fool. He brings me food and everything I ask for

[mightymouse32]

I kno this feelin black ops 2 all day b all night ugh makes me so mad !!! At least I'm not the only one who has to put up with the crap !! I know he won't be on this crap when babes is born !! Cuz the dang thing will oops poof be gone !!! ;)

[Lilseamonkey]

Haha that's perfect! I would turn the internet off right away

[babydue07182013]

Omg I would be furious. And then somehow the video games would just magically disappear. Gee Iwonder how that happened? :)

[Kaylamomof3]

see I won't let him get rid of the systems which is my problem to because I play but soon as a new game comes out I'm invisible.  he treats me like dog poo.  I was having contractions earlier with nausea and he ignored me when I asked for some help and water and had to get my four year old to get me something.  I actually have been thinking about playing around with the setting in my internet.  I am a technician for our cable company so I know all the passwords to block and shut off our services and him think it was them. lol at least that made me laugh

[Lilseamonkey]

God I hate men sometimes. I'm so thankful that my bf got rid of his game system on his own because he would do that exact thing to me. I'd be fuming mad and crying, and he sits there on black ops 2 ignoring life. I'm sorry honey :( I'm a bit dramatic so I'd take the cords to his system and hide them when he's not home or sleeping.