how should I reveal my pregnancy?

[Faith_Sarai]

I'll be 12w tomorrow. I'm I'm a tricky situation. I am 23 years old. I have a deeply spiritual background. My family, friends, teammates all associate me as grandma church girl of the group. They come to me for advice young and older. My dilemma is I got pregnant before I got married. I was married may 23rd.I have repented to the Lord, but I feel that I will owe so many ppl a&b apology. I had a dream that I was talking to a crowd of ppl about my pregnancy. Idk I'm tired of secretly being excited. My parents and sibling knows, also a couple of close friends but that's it. Advice pls...

[showard022]

They may not even notice. Only if they look deeply into. If they do they know your human and would love you no matter what.

[Faith_Sarai]

My parents siblings and close friends are excited. It's just everyone else that I was worried about, but you ladies helped me out thanks!

[Faith_Sarai]

Thanks ladies!

[elocinin]

Im not married we dont plan on it for a while. And I am not ashamed afraid or fearful to share my joy of being pregnant. I could care less who judges me or cares. Now years ago when I was religious I would have been mortified. Luckily I enjoy my life now but if enjoying my life is my ticket to hell then so be it. We arnt religious at all. Everyone has thier right to be so im not saying anything in a bad way I am kus saying I remember when I would have felt that way and its sad. Goodluck but j think your over stressing it. No one will care and if they do then I still wouldnt worry..you've prayed and made your peace with god so not a big deal what they think.

[NoraaaV]

I was kind of in the same situation as you, you just got to tell everyone that your pregnant whether there ok with it or not a baby is a blessing.

[MomOf1ExpectingAnother]

You can't please everyone , I do understand where you are coming from tho' . Because every family has it's own things that they go by . Rather or not your family accepts it , YOU are having a baby & that baby will be born in this world . Sometimes you can't go off of what others may think of you. You just have to do what's best for you , that baby, & that Marriage . Good luck hun! & I wish you the best on everything .

[2ndBabyDueFeb13th]

Its not a big deal. U were close enough to getting married. You owe NO ONE an apology and you really need to realize not to love ur life in FEAR of judgement or imperfection, u only have one life to live and u dont need to spend it being worried all the time. You will be an amazing mother and that is all that matters. Those who matter dont mind, and those who mind dont matter.

[OctoberBaby5]

Just tell them :)

[Faith_Sarai]

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[Cassie_rondo]

Bump

[Faith_Sarai]

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