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hubby problems w/ baby
So... my husband can't have children because his ex was too harsh on him. When we started talking about kids he told me and i asked him what he wants to do. He asked me to find someone willing to get me pregnant but not be the father. I found someone and there was absolutely no issues. The man willing said he wanted no contact with the bavy and for my husband to be the father as we wanted. All three of us agreed. I'm 25 weeks with a healthy baby. The only problem now is that my husband is angry at me for finding someone. I'm so confused. He wanted this! Mixed signals. Please help!
We thought about it for a year. And we're talking about counseling but he doesn't like the idea of it. I'm supporting him and i know its really hard, i just hope he isn't the same way towards the baby. And trust me his ex was one of the worst.
Sounds like hubby is jealous, but I'm confused. Didn't I just see on another post that you were 16? I could be wrong, but I thought that's what I saw. How old is hubby? I am in no way trying to pry, but it could be that hubby has mixed emotions. Maybe he did want this but now he's not so sure. Just talk to him about it and see if you can figure out where the anger is coming from.
Hit him in the balls 20 time a day for 6 months?!?!?! What a monster!!! Sorry if you ladys dont agree with me on this one but it sounds like she needs a hot poker to the vag >.< hope things settle down for you. Sounds like a coplicated situation
@robertiansmama thats easy, you say nothing.
Kj_wright have you him about it? In my opinion hes probably a little jelly belly
Kj_wright have you him about it? In my opinion hes probably a little jelly belly
Yh i think counseling it will be good idea, sounds like all that situation didn't gt to him before and now emotions taking over... I know he agreed to that bt its easy to say and much harder to do it. U need to understand and support him hun as much as u can coz he is in really difficult situation. Hope it all goes well for you two xxx
And this ex of his ... WTH what a weirdo smh
And this ex of his ... WTH what a weirdo smh
Cause he couldn't give you a baby he might not feel man enough or just plain and simple, it's not his baby your birthing. It just sinked in to him and now it's getting him angry cause it just hit him. Do you guys think this thoroughly or just went with it? Sounds like a lot to handle from his side. :s counseling sounds good foe you guys,
We technically didn't have sex. Ans i tried talking to a doctor i was seeing for headaches and because of my age he wouldn't talk to me at all about it. He was a more traditional "wait til your 25" type doctor. I know my husband feela bad about not being able to have his own kids, but i just don't understand why he's so mad at me when everything happened exactly as it was agreed upon. He's acted like a father already the whole time and he's acted great but this past week he's just been angry. I've never seen him like this.
He may be feeling insecure, not only my the method used but the fact that he couldn't give you a baby himself. You should typically have some sort of counseling session or at least a consultation with a doctor before taking decisions like this because of the psychological and emotional stress that can go along with it.
If you had sex with the other man then your hubby is probaly a lil hurt and jealous he shouldnt feel like that once the baby gets here but he is probaly thinking it didnt play out like he thought it would, but i wish all of yall the best luck : )
He can't have kids because his ex girlfriend hit him hard in the balls at least 20 times a day for 6 months. He's gotten tested and the doctor said that much inpact so often would make him sterile.
I'm not old enough to get the sperm donations and all three of us sat down and talked about what would happen. The "donor" or what you want to call him, didn't actually have sex with me, he just finished in me. I didn't touch him he did it all himself. And he didn't touch me except for finishing. And he was barely in.
When you say find someone to get you pregnant did he just donate sperm? It sounds as if your husband may be jealous, especially if you took a more "traditional" route to conceive with this other person. Did you all have a consultation or do any type.of counseling before making this decision?
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