My bf and i were both smokers. I quit as soon as i found out and he promised to quit by the time the baby gets here. Im due in 16 days and i havent seen him smoke a cig in a few weeks and he says he stopped smoking at work too. Im really proud of him. Its harder to quit when u dont have a reason growing inside ur belly. Maybe ur husband could agree to quit before the baby comes? I didnt want my baby around cigarettes or playing with lighters (i found my nephew with one of my brothers lighters once). But if u pressure him too much he will probly just get angry.
Does he smoke around you? Youre smoking too if he does...
I used to smoke aswell as my fiancee and i quit when i found out but he still smokes(away from me of course) and it doesnt bother me, he also likes to buy a lot ofstuff for himself and i dont tell him anything because he always budgets his money so we're on top of rent and bills. Maybe if you talk to him about budgeting? A place to sleep and food to eat is way more important then a cigarette. Also has he ever tried rolling his own? Theres machines that do it for you you just need to buy tobacco and filters and it is MUCH cheaper.