Aa
i hate him
I just wanna cry i sit here doing everything i can to be a good momma nd he ******* walks out on us i feel like my world is crashing down around me i have a lil less than five months left now nd have no furniture looking at these prices just drags me down i can't believe he did this to me and my son after all we had been through i just feel betrayed i feel like he is putting me through hell and back because he feels like he can this is the worst its been a lil over a month since he left us and i feel like it was just yesterday it tortures me i can't believe i care so much yet he hurt me so badly i can't imagine how I'm going to handle it when my son asks y he doesn't have a father it hurts to think about it i have so much crap going on its too stressful i have no money nothing nd i have to get my ged as well nd my license this is the worst i hate this i try so hard nd yet i still fail y is it men get to just walk away and not have a care in the world nd women end up with the heartache nd kids by themselves?!?! This is terrible!!!
Thanks ladies for everything its just hard to deal with sometimes i have tons of support just need to find a job to work around my schedule :/
I'm on the same boat. Trust me. If you read my child support post. You'd see. You're not alone. Grieve. And swiftly because later on you'll go back wondering why you wasted that time.
My husband doesn't have any idea who his father is. He has never even asked. All your son needs is you and you will be enough. You can do it girl. Garage sales, craigslist, goodwill, whatever. Do what you have to. Your son won't know or care whether its a 500 dollar crib or a free one. All he needs is you.
I've been focusing on my son since he left I've been preparing the nursery buying clothes toys everything and anything he might want or need he has been the only thing keeping his father off my mind till tonight when i realized how much this is going to cost me when i have nothing to spend already this ******* gets off without spending a dime on his son nd I'm stuck with the bills nd the pregnancy this ***** he can start over with someone else but i won't because the only man i trust is my son and I'm just so done with guys now my son is my prince he is all ill ever need
You sound more hurt than concerned about your child. You're only triggering bad vibes to your son. I think you need a breather. Sit. Relax. Stop. Think, a month from now. Where will I be? A year from now where will I be? 10 years from now? I bet he isn't even in the picture. So why are you giving this too much thought. I understand you may be really hurt. But a month is too much pondering. Get active, baby girl. Get busy!
Listen to these ladies very wise women at the end of the day all we have are our kids I don't have family so my kiddos are all my support.
Yea...i haven't talked to him since he left we don't see each other or anything just like we both dropped off the face of the earth i don't want him back after what he did to his son and myself id never tell my son what his father did because I'm afraid to hurt his feelings but my ex is scum and deserves to be alone forever because of what he did to his son he stuck around through the shots the morning sickness and the mood swings then when things started getting better he walks away when my waist grew and i couldn't fit my jeans he decides to run when i started buying things nd he wasn't willing to spend money he walks away like my son and i meant nothing to him all along he didn't even find out that he had a son before he left I'm sure someone has told him by now I'm just not even bothering with him I'm tired of it all
It's going to be hard but there are a lot of women out there that have done it on there own with and without kids. I tell my husband when and if we ever separate I can make it on my own I know ill strugle but hey we can do anything we bring life into this world we are stronger than we think don't get discouraged it will be all right at the end. Men will be men and hey play his game don't care hold your head up and tell him you don't need his *** your strong your kiddos will show you how to be strong. Take this from the woman that thought everything was to hard that being a single parent would kill me now I laugh at every one and say ***** look at me now I'm better and improved 1year and 9 months I have my own apartment my own car pay my rent and light no one helps me the day my husband decides to leave economically it won't hurt emotionally yes but hey u can knock me down and ill get right back up at the end like only us women can do I'm 24 and I'm expecting a baby boy in jan1 keep your head up momma god only puts infront of you what u can handle. ..
I agree with you, Ariel. I had to go through heartaches and a bit of nausea of just being sad and depressed. So many tears and worry and stress and anger. But one day. I woke up. I said it's gonna be a good day today. And it was. And I liked it. And I said. It can be like this all the time. Plus there's so much help out there! He doesn't have to see the baby but he can lay on the bed he made because I WILL be putting him on child support. I didn't magically get pregnant.
Oh and same with ^^ mines is a weed smoker and a lier and a womanizer when my daughter ask for her step dad I just simply say I don't know sweety u have mommy and baby brother and baby brother will be here soon. And we love you and everything gonna be okay.
Going threw the same thing. I have tried gave him pleanty of chances. He say he want to be there and help but he's not I have 3 year old and her dad is deceased. It's hard because I only get a certain amount a month. And I'm looking a prices like omg. If I pay for this how am I gonna get threw the month. And my daughter need new shoes and winter is coming up. It's hard. A friend told me about a a pregnancy care center. And it's at a local church and its every Friday. And it's great because they go off of donations from the community. And each time you go you read like a book or talk to one of the head people about what's going on. And it's only between you and her. Friday was my first day and I got diapers for the baby. I seen a bassinet and each time I go I get 3 points. So depend on what I want and how many points I got I can get the bassinet and its new in the box! It's real helpful. Try looking up something around you. And don't focus on him. It's gonna take a while trust me it took me since June. An the more he's not around and act like he don't care I just say oh well he's gonna miss out on a great baby/ lol boy. An if he wants to know anything about his baby he knows how to get a hold of me. I haven't talk to him in a weeks. I cryed for 3 days. But I wasn't about to keep stressing so I said fu.k it it's me and my kids for now. Head up gurlie everything will turn out just fine :)
As far as that. Your son doesn't need to know details. My baby daddy is literally a pathological liar. A womanizer. An alcoholic. A pothead and I don't have to tell my daughter that. I'll kindly say that it didn't work out. .
Honey, I'm going through something similar but not quite. What I did was Craigslist. My daughters crib was 45 dollars. You'll have to pull through on your own. Don't expect him to be around. I'm sorry to break it to you but men won't come to us unless they see us happier without them. Please, show him that you don't need him. It was hard for me at first. But I cut contact with him and now he won't leave me alone. Which is good. I want him to beg and know that this isn't a joke.
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